There is a simple problem here if one analyses it.
1. We are called to listen, follow and believe in Jesus
2. Those who do this are promised eternal life and not to perish
No. Those who believe in Christ are given eternal life and shall never perish.
Please read John 10:27,28 correctly. There is nothing in or about v.27 that forms a condition for receiving eternal life.
If you want verses that actually DO, and very clearly, state WHO receives eternal life, here are some of them:
Salvation:
Mark 16:16 " He who has believed and has been baptized shall be saved; but he who has disbelieved shall be condemned.
Luke 8:12 "Those beside the road are those who have heard; then the devil comes and takes away the word from their heart, so that they will not believe and be saved.
Acts 4:12 "And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved."
Acts 11:14 and he will speak words to you by which you will be saved, you and all your household.'
Acts 16:31 They said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household."
Rom 10:9, 10 9 that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; 10 for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.
Rom 1:16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek.
1 Cor 1:21 - For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not know him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe.
Eph 2:8 For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;
2 Tim 3:15 and that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
1 Peter 1:5 who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.
1 Peter 1:9 obtaining as the outcome of your faith the salvation of your souls.
2 Thess 2:13 But we should always give thanks to God for you, brethren beloved by the Lord, because God has chosen you from the beginning for salvation through sanctification by the Spirit and faith in the truth.
Eternal Life:
John 3:15-16 15 so that whoever believes will in Him have eternal life. 16 "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
John 3:36 "He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him."
John 5:24 "Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.
John 6:40 "For this is the will of My Father, that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in Him will have eternal life, and I Myself will raise him up on the last day."
John 6:47 "Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes has eternal life.
Rom 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord
1 Tim 1:16 Yet for this reason I found mercy, so that in me as the foremost, Jesus Christ might demonstrate His perfect patience as an example for those who would believe in Him for eternal life.
Gal 3:22 But the Scripture has shut up everyone under sin, so that the promise by faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe.
1 John 5:13 These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may know that you have eternal life.
So, 24 verses that speak of believing in Christ for salvation/eternal life. How many mentions "listening and following" for eternal life? None.
In fact, it is to believers that the command to listen and follow are made.
But NONE to become saved.
3. We do not know who truly qualifies or fails, just we are called.
Irrelevant to the point of eternal security.
So many observe people will come and go and some stay.
I was talking to a brother yesterday and we talked about change.
We are so fragile, if God forces His way into our lives we die and are destroyed.
Please explain what is meant by "if God forces His way into our lives we die anda re destroyed". btw, He doesn't, so your "iffy" statement is totally irrelevant anyway.
To come to the Lord starts with acceptance of change, of repentance, of humbling and beginning anew.
No, it's about trusting in His work that saves us.
The walk that begins is about change, learning and growth.
Of course.
So a simple rule is, if one is frozen, locked down, hurting and shutting out love, that is not Jesus openly working in ones heart and the life of the Holy Spirit working in one.
On this basis, it is our openness and walking in love that is our eternal life.
This doesn't make sense. Our eternal life is a gift from Jesus for believing in Him.
To shut this down is to die
Where do you get this notion? What verse/passage teaches this?
I have found believers who shut Jesus out, claim their hearts are desperately wicked and can never be cleansed or purified. They seem to hate the language of love, openness and honesty from the heart. And they hold desperately to assurance of salvation through the promises, under the illusion God will radically change them in some unknown way at the last trumpet.
Such believers are obviously very screwed up. They either never paid any attention in church, or they flatly rejected truth, or their pastors screwed them up.