Yes, I am very serious.
I mean, take a step back a moment, and look at things from a third party perspective: Do you not think it is strange or bit odd that you are refusing to explain whole entire verses that refutes your belief? We can go over them one by one if you like.
We can start with Matthew 19:17. Jesus says if you will enter into life, keep the commandments. Please keep in mind that Jesus did not say this to the young rich ruler to show him how it is impossible to keep God's laws. Matthew 19 ends with the point of forsaking things in our life as a part of everlasting life. In Luke 19:1-10, we learn that when Zacchaeus admitted to Jesus that he was going to sell half of his goods to the poor, Jesus said that salvation had come to his house.
I believe the Bible teaches
Prevenient Grace. It is divine grace that precedes human decision. In other words, God will start showing love to that individual at a certain point in his lifetime. However, it is up to that person's free will choice to accept the sudden light of God's love towards them and to respond in kind. So it is Synergistic. There is a cooperation going on. It's not a one way street. You do actually have to put forth an effort to respond to God's call.
For you erroneously believe that Faith is exclusively a belief alone. It is not. James says he will show you his faith by his works (See James 2:18). James says faith without works is dead (James 2:17). No works, and that means one's faith is dead and cannot access the saving grace of God.
Do you believe in the Calvinistic teaching of Unconditional Election?
Not true. Here are several lists of verses that makes it absolutely clear that believers can fall away from the faith:
Here is a General List of Verses on How Believers Can Fall Away:
1 Samuel 16:14
1 Samuel 31:4
Ezekiel 18:24
Hebrews 3:12-14
Hebrews 4:11
Hebrews 6:4-9
Hebrews 10:26-30
Hebrews 12:15
1 Timothy 1:18-20
1 Timothy 4:1-7
Galatians 3:1-5
2 Peter 2:20-22
2 Peter 3:17
Matthew 13:18-23
1 Corinthians 10:12
2 Thessalonians 2:3
Now, do not misunderstand me, believers cannot lose their salvation, but they can forfeit their salvation (i.e. they can willingly throw it away by rebelling against God). In fact,
Here is a list of believers who have forfeited their salvation:
Saul (1 Samuel 16:14) (1 Samuel 31:4)
Demas (2 Timothy 4:10)
The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32)
Judas Iscariot (Psalm 41:9) (Luke 6:16) (Acts 1:25)
Hymenaeus and Philetus (2 Timothy 2:17-18)
Unnamed Christians destroyed by false teaching (2 Timothy 2:17-18)
Many Unnamed Disciples (John 6:66)
Some Younger Christian Widows (1 Timothy 5:14-15)
Some Christians Eager For Money (1 Timothy 6:8-10)
Ananias and Sapphira (Acts of the Apostles 5:1-11)
And here is a list of potential fallen believers:
The Servant Who is Not Looking For Him (Luke 12:45-46)
Recent Convert Who is a Potential Spiritual Leader (1 Timothy 3:6)
The Unforgiving in Heart (Matthew 6:14-15)
Luke Warm Unrepentant Believer (Revelation 3:14-22)
Fruitless Christians (John 15:1-10) (Matthew 25:14-30)
Widows That Live in Pleasure (1 Timothy 5:5-6)
Believers Whose Seed Fell Upon the Rocks (Luke 8:13)
Believers Whose Seed Was Choked by Thorns (Matthew 13:22)
Gentile Believer Who Did Not Have on a Wedding Garment (Matthew 22:1-14) (Revelation 19:7-8)
The Potential Fellow Believer Who Erred From the Truth & Was Converted Back
(James 5:19-20)
For Jesus is the Light and we are to shine the Light of Christ within our lives. For there are those who think they can serve Jesus and also live for oneself, sin, and evil; But this is wrong, though. "For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God" (John 3:20-21).