Children are welcomed by God and they welcome Him.
That's what scripture says anyway.
Yet the problem remains, as i said:
So you'ld follow that rule & let your child go burn in hell fires forever?
There's something wrong here with someone's theology if the most loving thing to do is kill.
As for the Scripture (Mt. 19:14) you refer to:
Weymouth New Testament
Jesus however said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them; for it is to those who are childlike that the Kingdom of the Heavens belongs."
It doesn't say "little children" are forced to go to heaven (whether they want to or not) if they die as "little children".
Furthermore, Mt.19:14 says nothing about aborted babies, but refers to "properly, a child under training"
http://biblehub.com/greek/3813.htm
Also, the idea isn't that these "little children" go to heaven if they died, but that one must become "like" such, in a certain way or ways, if they are to qualify for heaven:
Matthew 18:3
"Truly I tell you," He said, "unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Mark 10:15
Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."
The apostle Paul, & earlier in Matthew Jesus, puts the statement of Mt.19:14 in proper perspective:
1 Corinthians 14:20
Brothers, stop thinking like children. In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be mature.
Matthew 18:3
"Truly I tell you," He said, "unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
"In Mark and Luke it is said he immediately added, "Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall not enter therein." Whosoever shall not be humble, unambitious, and docile, shall not be a true follower of Christ or a member of his kingdom. Of such as these - that is, of persons with such tempers as these - is the church to be composed. He does not say of those infants, but of such persons as resemble them, or are like them in temper, is the kingdom of heaven made up. As emblematic, therefore, of what his own followers were to be, and as having traits of character so strongly resembling what he required in his followers..."
"...All are fallen; all have, a tendency to sin, and none but Jesus can save them. Little children, too..."
"... it does not appear to be the design of this passage to teach that all infants will be saved. It means simply that they should be suffered to be brought to Christ as amiable, lovely, and uncorrupted by the world; as having traits of mind resembling those among real Christians; and as themselves needing his blessing."
"...for of such is the kingdom of heaven; that is, as the Syriac renders it, "who are as these" or as the Persic version, rather paraphrasing than translating, renders it, "who have been humble as these little children": and it is as if our Lord should say, do not drive away these children from my person and presence; they are lively emblems of the proper subjects of a Gospel church state, and of such that shall enter into the kingdom of heaven: by these I may instruct and point out to you, what converted persons should be, who have a place in my church below, and expect to enter into my kingdom and glory above; that they are, or ought to be, like such children, harmless and inoffensive; free from rancour and malice, meek, modest, and humble; without pride, self-conceit, and ambitious views, and desires of grandeur and superiority."
Matthew 19:14 Commentaries: But Jesus said, "Let the children alone, and do not hinder them from coming to Me; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
As to babies & little children entering the Kingdom of God:
"Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again." " (Jn.3:3)
Babies who died weren't born of the Spirit in their mortal life. They can't enter the kingdom of God till they are born of the Spirit.
"Flesh is born of flesh, but spirit is born of the Spirit." (Jn.3:6).Babies were born of the flesh, and died without being born of the Spirit.
If there is no salvation (being born again) after death, then how do those who died as babies or children get saved?
Do they at some point get to hear the gospel in the afterlife & make a choice for or against Christ?
Or is salvation forced upon them by irresistible grace?
If so, then wouldn't it be a great blessing to have been aborted & thereby avoid any risk of endless hell? Wouldn't it be doing them a favor to have an abortion? Clearly that can't be true.
Evidently babies who die are not immediately forced into heaven without a choice and without being first saved or born of the Spirit.
Therefore, though many deny it is possible, there must be after death salvation.
Some other Scriptures to consider re infants who die in their infancy & with their fallen sinful nature remaining inside of them:
"The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world." (Jn.1:9)
"And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself." (Jn.12:32)
"He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son." (Rev.21:7).
And there shall in no wise enter into it any thing that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination, or maketh a lie: but they which are written in the Lamb's book of life. (Rev.21:27)
Do demon possessed babies and children who die go to heaven with the demons still inside them? Or do they need to be saved after death from these demons before they are allowed into heaven? Do they need to be born again postmortem before they can enter the kingdom (Jn.3:3-8)?
It's clear those not born again aren't getting into the kingdom of God (Jn.3:3-8). Were aborted babies born again before they died? No. So they will have to be born again postmortem before they can enter the kingdom of God. That would be postmortem salvation.
Will Love Omnipotent force the aborted to be born again postmortem? Will He give them no choice in the matter? Is He a Calvinist? If dead babies get an automatic entry into heaven, should a loving parent let their child reach the age of accountability & possibly go to hell forever? Or would it be more loving to send the child to heaven?
These questions reveal the absurdity of the view that there is (1) an endless torture chamber awaiting billions of humans & (2) that babies who die as such automatically avoid such a hell & are forced (whether they want to or not) into heaven. Both (1) & (2) cannot be true. In fact both are false.
http://www.hopebeyondhell.net/articles/further-study/eternity/