So coming from a bumpkin baptist church in rural Florida to a more metropolitan church in another state has been kind of a strange experience.
So pretty much at the old church, if you showed up regularly you were considered a member. Here there's a formal process. So we asked the pastor at the time about it. He sent a nice letter and saying the church was there and happy to serve our family. Great, we thought that was it.
Last weekend one of the deacons approached and asked why we hadn't joined the church. I'm sure he appreciated the deer in the headlights look I gave him. So the pastor we talked to had some convictions, and was pretty ironclad in them. He quit last October because he objected to Trunk or Treat. That's fine, some people do, but he also didn't register a complaint about it or give any advance notice. He just walked. He'd done a few other slightly odd things as well.
Turns out there is a whole formal process to go through to join, and he just blew us off. We had no idea, though. LOL.