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In my prayer time this morning I was struck by how much I struggle sometimes with the longing to belong. So often I feel like an outsider; as a migrant and cultural mis-fit; as a person of faith in a secular world; even in my church, I've ended up somewhere different than where the tradition feels like "home."
It seems to be that everywhere I go I end up being the square peg in the round hole, often due to the lack of convenient square holes. And that comes at a cost, as I then have to either kind of squeeze myself to fit, or try to push at my context to make it a better fit, and neither of those are easy things to sustain over the long haul.
I think part of me yearns to be part of a group of people of like mind, where I can be myself and feel at home without constantly worrying that I'm going to do or say the "wrong" thing or just not really understand where others are coming from.
I don't think it's personal insecurity or the desire for affirmation, exactly, driving it; I think it's more that life (and life as a Christian) can be hard; and that being part of such a community is a source of encouragement and resilience.
So I wondered what people do when they don't seem to have anywhere to belong, and how you deal with that longing? Or is it just me?
It seems to be that everywhere I go I end up being the square peg in the round hole, often due to the lack of convenient square holes. And that comes at a cost, as I then have to either kind of squeeze myself to fit, or try to push at my context to make it a better fit, and neither of those are easy things to sustain over the long haul.
I think part of me yearns to be part of a group of people of like mind, where I can be myself and feel at home without constantly worrying that I'm going to do or say the "wrong" thing or just not really understand where others are coming from.
I don't think it's personal insecurity or the desire for affirmation, exactly, driving it; I think it's more that life (and life as a Christian) can be hard; and that being part of such a community is a source of encouragement and resilience.
So I wondered what people do when they don't seem to have anywhere to belong, and how you deal with that longing? Or is it just me?