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I have read repeatedly that successful people take their destiny into their own hands and do not blame the World or their parents.
But correlation is not causality and there are a few flaws in using these factoids in place of actual wisdom.
The thread 'Maybe it isn't all your fault' was not intended to be a recipe for success or to explain how I think it might be possible to get one step up the ladder, as I know only too well that it is often impossible to do so.
Instead it was intended as a partial protection against feelings of failure and that slide known as 'depression'.
For example. My dad explained to me when I was 26 that by that age he owned a house and had two children and that I have to learn to stand on my own two legs.
That comment didn't help in any way but it did help to make me feel even more 'down'.
But correlation is not causality and there are a few flaws in using these factoids in place of actual wisdom.
The thread 'Maybe it isn't all your fault' was not intended to be a recipe for success or to explain how I think it might be possible to get one step up the ladder, as I know only too well that it is often impossible to do so.
Instead it was intended as a partial protection against feelings of failure and that slide known as 'depression'.
For example. My dad explained to me when I was 26 that by that age he owned a house and had two children and that I have to learn to stand on my own two legs.
That comment didn't help in any way but it did help to make me feel even more 'down'.