Ephesians 1(11): ALL THINGS after " HIS " will means it is impossible for our own will because all things are already after his will
What do you mean by "impossible for our own will"?
You mean that we can't choose?
So why, in Scripture, did Joshua say to the Israelites, "Choose this day who you will serve", Joshua 24:15, 22? Why did Elijah tell the Israelites to choose between God and Baal, 1 Kings 18:21?
How was Adam able to choose to disobey God?
Why did Cain choose to murder Abel?
Why did Abraham tell Lot to choose which way to go when they separated - "if you choose the left, I'll take the right", Genesis 13:8-11?
God chooses, and as we are made in his image, we too have the ability to choose.
You've chosen to post on this forum. I, sometimes, choose to answer your posts. You chose where to live, what church to go to, what job to have etc. Yes, I'm sure you prayed and asked for guidance, but nobody forced, or forces, you to do do any of the things that you do.
I will get dressed in a few minutes. No outfit is going to fly out of my wardrobe and hit me in the face; I will decide what I am going to wear. Apart from a commitment this evening, there is nothing I need to do today. If I lay on my bed and did nothing until someone forced me to move, I'd spend all day lying on my bed.
God gave us a will. If he hadn't, Jesus wouldn't have told us to love him with our will.
Jesus never forced anyone to do anything.