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Hi all. I am married and both of us are born again Christians. My wife has been going to the same church with her mom since she was a very little girl and I never went to a real church consistently until I started dating her. After I was born again I started taking it more seriously and became built up and fired up. Eventually I ran into another man of God who was on fire for Christ and he invited me to his church which was Pentecostal. So I went and man my spirit was lifted and I praised God with a shout and the pastor prayed for me and said that I could use the gift of prophecy without anything holding me back. So I took it to heart and I believe that the spiritual gifts were present in my life and becoming stronger. However my wife inclined that we stop going there because she felt her home was at her other church and this one was making her feel uncomfortable. I reluctantly agreed but I haven't been the same since. I feel like the spiritual gifts in the bible aren't at her church in the way it was at this other one. And now I am about as bad as I was before I even went to this other one. We have been in several arguments over it until I've finally just given up and accepted that she will never want to move away from her parents or away from her church and now I'm not being as lifted as I would like to be as a result of my church environment being nothing but old people in a small church that is losing numbers and the missions are few and far between. My pastor there got mad at me because when I tried to talk to him about it he felt like I was calling his church inadequate and I really didn't mean it like that just that I'm not receiving the right building up that I feel like I need in my church life. As a result I stopped going to church for 2 years and only recently when I joined this forum did I begin to reignite this passion. I started attending church regularly again but once again I find myself seeing this church without the baptism of the Holy spirit or the signs of the believers only that it's a small time traditional local church that offers deliverance ministry on the down low.
I don't know what to do I'm married to this woman who is obstinate in her ways and if I try to change this she will become very unhappy and it will cause spiritual division between us. She doesn't ever want to pray or read the bible so why does she care what church we go to? Oh that's right those people there are like her family and she loves them to much. Fine but I wanted more of the Lord I wanted to leave this hometown behind and serve God and not stay here and just slave away to provide for a home for my wife and just me be miserable. I wanted the spiritual gifts but I have nobody to fellowship with my same beliefs about the bible or to even challenge me for that matter. It's very upsetting.
I guess if you had the gall to read this I would like some encouragement and suggestions and thoughts because the spiritual gifts are accepted as truth there but not practiced or used and deliverance is but rarely and it's kept quiet that it's even a ministry in our church.
Hi all. I am married and both of us are born again Christians. My wife has been going to the same church with her mom since she was a very little girl and I never went to a real church consistently until I started dating her. After I was born again I started taking it more seriously and became built up and fired up. Eventually I ran into another man of God who was on fire for Christ and he invited me to his church which was Pentecostal. So I went and man my spirit was lifted and I praised God with a shout and the pastor prayed for me and said that I could use the gift of prophecy without anything holding me back. So I took it to heart and I believe that the spiritual gifts were present in my life and becoming stronger. However my wife inclined that we stop going there because she felt her home was at her other church and this one was making her feel uncomfortable. I reluctantly agreed but I haven't been the same since. I feel like the spiritual gifts in the bible aren't at her church in the way it was at this other one. And now I am about as bad as I was before I even went to this other one. We have been in several arguments over it until I've finally just given up and accepted that she will never want to move away from her parents or away from her church and now I'm not being as lifted as I would like to be as a result of my church environment being nothing but old people in a small church that is losing numbers and the missions are few and far between. My pastor there got mad at me because when I tried to talk to him about it he felt like I was calling his church inadequate and I really didn't mean it like that just that I'm not receiving the right building up that I feel like I need in my church life. As a result I stopped going to church for 2 years and only recently when I joined this forum did I begin to reignite this passion. I started attending church regularly again but once again I find myself seeing this church without the baptism of the Holy spirit or the signs of the believers only that it's a small time traditional local church that offers deliverance ministry on the down low.
I don't know what to do I'm married to this woman who is obstinate in her ways and if I try to change this she will become very unhappy and it will cause spiritual division between us. She doesn't ever want to pray or read the bible so why does she care what church we go to? Oh that's right those people there are like her family and she loves them to much. Fine but I wanted more of the Lord I wanted to leave this hometown behind and serve God and not stay here and just slave away to provide for a home for my wife and just me be miserable. I wanted the spiritual gifts but I have nobody to fellowship with my same beliefs about the bible or to even challenge me for that matter. It's very upsetting.
I guess if you had the gall to read this I would like some encouragement and suggestions and thoughts because the spiritual gifts are accepted as truth there but not practiced or used and deliverance is but rarely and it's kept quiet that it's even a ministry in our church.
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