Homosexuality, Same Sex Marriage, and Why You're Wrong

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Society has been promoting and celebrating unmarried heterosex for much longer.

True. Maybe it's before my time, but Christians no doubt had something to say about it (although not quite as loudly since the internet didn't exist) when Hollywood started portraying it and promoting it in movies.
 
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Is that something you googled? I think most Christians condemn all the things God considers an abomination. It's just that the topic of homosexuality comes up more often than others. Go ahead and start a thread about a lying tongue, justifying wickedness, idolatry, robbery, adultery, murder, etc, etc. I bet we'll all agree! God even mentions 'the sins of the nations' in that.
What about gluttony? Not sure it is called an abomination per se. But it is identified as sin.

And it certainly seems to be given a big pass in the American evangelical movement. And this despite the inmense needless suffering it engenders.
 
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Politically I consider myself a Moderate who leans to the Right. Religiously I am a Conservative Christian.

For quite some time I have been pondering the issue of homosexuality and same sex marriage. During this time, I always come to the conclusion that, as an American and a Christian, I have no business voting or being against same sex marriage or gay rights in general.

The United States is the land of the free. We have the freedom to do whatever it is that we want to do so long as it's lawful. In America, you can be in a same sex relationship. In America, gays have the freedom to marry. In America, we are supposed to all be equal and share the same rights.

Speaking now as a Christian, what right do I have to oppose somebody's free will? Not even God forces people to follow him or to not sin. God let's us all choose, so why is it that people like to choose for other people whether or not they will follow God, not sin, and thus live a life pleasing to him? People say it's because they care about the soul of those who are in such relationships. Their soul isn't in your hands. It is in God's hands. And again, he gives us freedom to choose.

In the Church (here I speak of the Eastern Orthodox Church, but we can broaden this statement to mean all of Christianity, despite that some will vehemently disagree), there is no place for homosexuality or same sex marriage. It is a sin, and if you're in the Church, we must hold you to Godly standards and judge your actions and offer correction. But as Paul says, what right do we have to judge those OUTSIDE of the Church? It's none of our business, and being Americans, we should not oppose the rights of consenting adults who choose to marry.
Yep, you're in favour of legalizing inappropriate behavior with animals and child inappropriate content. Otherwise, we wouldn't all be 'equal' to you, right?
Homophiles and zoophiles are too dangerous to be trusted in the general public. I don't want those things criminalized in order to 'force repentance' as that is impossible.
 
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Yep, you're in favour of legalizing inappropriate behavior with animals and child inappropriate content. Otherwise, we wouldn't all be 'equal' to you, right?
Homophiles and zoophiles are too dangerous to be trusted in the general public. I don't want those things criminalized in order to 'force repentance' as that is impossible.
-_- they specified consenting ADULTS, which eliminates child inappropriate content and inappropriate behavior with animals from what they are in favor of legalizing.

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Yep, you're in favour of legalizing inappropriate behavior with animals and child inappropriate content. Otherwise, we wouldn't all be 'equal' to you, right?
Homophiles and zoophiles are too dangerous to be trusted in the general public. I don't want those things criminalized in order to 'force repentance' as that is impossible.
How on earth do you get from two consenting adults who love each other, to animal and child abuse - which clearly lack consent, let alone mutual love and commitment?
 
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The Lord clearly tells us that homosexuality is a sin:

No he doesn’t. You can’t show me one word about anything that was written by a god. What you can show me are words written by other humans claiming to speak for a god...
 
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Yep, you're in favour of legalizing inappropriate behavior with animals and child inappropriate content. Otherwise, we wouldn't all be 'equal' to you, right?
Homophiles and zoophiles are too dangerous to be trusted in the general public. I don't want those things criminalized in order to 'force repentance' as that is impossible.
When in doubt, time for the blood libel.
 
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No he doesn’t. You can’t show me one word about anything that was written by a god. What you can show me are words written by other humans claiming to speak for a god...

As long as you label yourself as Atheist, you'll never understand the answer.
 
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As long as you label yourself as Atheist, you'll never understand the answer.

No, I'm pretty sure he understands. Roughly 95% of the world's population is heterosexual. Most likely, the one's whom wrote the Bible would then be heterosexual. Many heterosexuals, whom think about same sex partnerships, may think it's 'icky', 'gross', or unappealing for themselves. The Bible appears to represent the local 'morals' and/or opinions of the author's whom wrote such verses. It is just that in today's American society, it is more tolerated or accepted, as moral's adapt, update, 'progress', etc. This does not mean the 'acceptance' is grounded in their actual appeal for the acts. It's that society can really see no actual 'wrong' from the act, other than thinking it is not personally attractive for themselves.

So outside of the Bible simply stating homosexuality is an abomination, why is homosexuality objectively wrong? What is the evidence for this conclusion?
 
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God has defined marriage is being a man and a woman joined together as one in a holy union.

Man has defined marriage as being whatever society decides it is.

One is clearly right and the other is clearly wrong.

Unless you are a hermaphrodite
 
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If we obey the Lord's commandments, we set an example for others.

We have many opposing sects to Christianity alone, all differing in claimed objective moral values. Which commandments are forever, and which ones were done away with post resurrection? There exists no clear dividing line. Even if man chooses to elect a Godly path, it is still a massive web of confusion and controversy (in which all sides objectively assert their position is right, while all opposing sects are incorrect).
 
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I am a heterosexual male. It amazes me why any member of the LGBTQ community would be the slightest concerned with what the scriptures of any myththological religion like Christianity or Judaism, say about the biologically predetermined (at birth) sexual orientation of a person in the LGBTQ community.

Any religious scriptures that condemns a person's sexual preference and call's for that person to be killed, is not worthy of serious intellectual consideration.

Ask a parishioner, if Christianity and Judaism are real, then where is the Garden of Eden? It should still be there for all the world to see.

Cherubims are a level of heavenly celestial beings. Both the turning flaming sword and Cherubims should still be there in 2018. Where are they?

Can a person go see the guarded and marked entrance to the Garden of Eden?

Of course not because it never existed. Don't base your self-esteem or self-worth on the scriptures of mythical religions.

The Ranks of Angels
1st Sphere – Seraphim, Cheribum and Thrones
2nd Sphere – Dominions, Virtues and Powers
3rd Sphere – Principalities, Archangels and Angels

Genesis 3:23-24

23. Therefore the LORD God sent him forth from the garden of Eden, to till the ground from whence he was taken.

24. So he drove out the man; and he placed at the east of the garden of Eden Cherubims, and a flaming sword which turned every way, to keep the way of the tree of life
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I am a heterosexual male. It amazes me why any member of the LGBTQ community would be the slightest concerned with what the scriptures of any myththological religion like Christianity or Judaism, say about the biologically predetermined (at birth) sexual orientation of a person in the LGBTQ community.

One word: Truth.

I spent a long time looking for answers - I have a degree in psychology, and spent years researching Jesus' claims, reading the Bible, atheist responses, etc, and I cannot escape a simple conclusion: Jesus is who he claims to be.

I, along with many, many other Christians (gay and straight) do not believe the Bible condemns two people who love each other. But even if it did, truth matters.
 
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One word: Truth.

I spent a long time looking for answers - I have a degree in psychology, and spent years researching Jesus' claims, reading the Bible, atheist responses, etc, and I cannot escape a simple conclusion: Jesus is who he claims to be.

I, along with many, many other Christians (gay and straight) do not believe the Bible condemns two people who love each other. But even if it did, truth matters.
Remember this movie with Jack Nicholson "Truth!! You can't handle the truth".

Jesus is who you claim him to be.

You subscribe to and practice blind faith. Outside the Bible you cannot cite one credible anthropological source for the existence of any supernatural character named Jesus.

Don't cite the one forged passage that has been debunked or the other postcard length citation based on hearsay, gossip and scuttlebutt.

You may want to read the scriptures of the Bible and Tanakh of Judaism "that in fact do" call for the murder of two same-sex people who love each other.

Where is the Garden of Eden?
 
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Remember this movie with Jack Nicholson "Truth!! You can't handle the truth".

Jesus is who you claim him to be.

You subscribe to and practice blind faith. Outside the Bible you cannot cite one credible anthropological source for the existence of any supernatural character named Jesus. Don't cite the one forged passage that has been debunked or the other postcard length citation based on hearsay, gossip and scuttlebutt.

You may want to read the scriptures of the Bible and Tanakh "that in fact do" call for the murder of two same-sex people who love each other.

Where is the Garden of Eden?

That's only true if you shift the goalposts on what counts as "credible anthropological source". No world class historian doubts that Jesus existed - that was actually where I started. If you deny that, you have to then also say Caesar, and a myriad of other historical figures are dubious as well. The documentation for Jesus' life stands up to any historical test of authenticity.
 
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That's only true if you shift the goalposts on what counts as "credible anthropological source". No world class historian doubts that Jesus existed - that was actually where I started. If you deny that, you have to then also say Caesar, and a myriad of other historical figures are dubious as well. The documentation for Jesus' life stands up to any historical test of authenticity.
I don't think the issue has really ever been merely his existence...
 
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That's only true if you shift the goalposts on what counts as "credible anthropological source". No world class historian doubts that Jesus existed - that was actually where I started. If you deny that, you have to then also say Caesar, and a myriad of other historical figures are dubious as well. The documentation for Jesus' life stands up to any historical test of authenticity.

Don't keep dodging the question. Where is the Garden of Eden? It should still be there for all to see.

You call it shifting the goal post, because you can't even get pass the one yard line, as far as providing any credible anthropological evidence.

You and your so called historians have no credible anthropological evidence that Jesus, Moses, John the Baptist, The Garden of Eden-or any mythological person or place existed. Anyone you cite as a world class historian who says Jesus and any of the mythical characters or mythical places like the Garden of Eden existed--is relying on hearsay, gossip and scuttlebutt.

For your information, we know Pharaoh Tutankhamen (King Tut) existed, we know Queen Tye the grandmother of King Tut existed, we know Pharaoh after Pharaoh after Pharaoh etc...existed... because their physical bodies along with radio-carbon dated artifacts and writings found with their bodies, prove their existence as real people.

I suggest you take a trip to the British Museum in London or Egyptian Museum in Cairo, or I don't know say,...most major museums in America and around the world--and see primary, secondary, tertiary and radio-carbon dated anthropological findings that document the existence of people who "Lived Thousands of Years" before the mythical characters in the Bible and Tanakh of Judaism.

And by the way, historians who actually lived during the time the mythical Jesus supposedly walked the earth, performing supernatural miracles in front of thousands of people--wrote absolutely nothing about him.

Especially, the events that supposedly occurred after the immediate death of Jesus--an earthquake, accompanied with darkness and dead saints rising up out of graves and walking into a holy city, (probably Jerusalem), where everyone saw them.

That surely would have been something to record by a historian of that present time.

Matthew 27:

51. And, behold, the veil of the temple was rent in twain from the top to the bottom; and the earth did quake, and the rocks rent;

52. And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose,

53. And came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.

54. Now when the centurion, and they that were with him, watching Jesus, saw the earthquake, and those things that were done, they feared greatly, saying, Truly this was the Son of God.
 
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Don't keep dodging the question. Where is the Garden of Eden? It should still be there for all to see.

Genesis can be read in one of two ways - as history, or poetry. Either way you would not expect to see the Garden of Eden because however you understand Genesis, the Garden was destroyed in the flood.

You call it shifting the goal post, because you can't even get pass the one yard line, as far as providing any credible anthropological evidence.

You and your so called historians have no credible anthropological evidence that Jesus, Moses, John the Baptist, The Garden of Eden-or any mythological person or place existed. Anyone you cite as a world class historian who says Jesus and any of the mythical characters or mythical places like the Garden of Eden existed--is relying on hearsay, gossip and scuttlebutt.

This is self contradicting. How could a historian be both world class and rely on gossip?
Try this summary: Did Jesus Exist? Searching for Evidence Beyond the Bible - Biblical Archaeology Society

For your information, we know Pharaoh Tutankhamen (King Tut) existed, we know Queen Tye the grandmother of King Tut existed, we know Pharaoh after Pharaoh after Pharaoh etc...existed... because their physical bodies along with radio-carbon dated artifacts and writings found with their bodies, prove their existence as real people.

I suggest you take a trip to the British Museum in London or Egyptian Museum in Cairo, or I don't know say,...most major museums in America and around the world--and see primary, secondary, tertiary and radio-carbon dated anthropological findings that document the existence of people who "Lived Thousands of Years" before the mythical characters in the Bible and Tanakh of Judaism.

I actually laughed at this - I was at the British Museum two summers ago. Guess what they were running. A "tour through the Museum with the Bible". So yeah, I have seen this for myself. So unless you want to say that they are a "so called Museum"...

And by the way, historians who actually lived during the time the mythical Jesus supposedly walked the earth, performing supernatural miracles in front of thousands of people--wrote absolutely nothing about him.

Especially, the events that supposedly occurred after the immediate death of Jesus--an earthquake, accompanied with darkness and dead saints rising up out of graves and walking into a holy city, (probably Jerusalem), where everyone saw them.

That surely would have been something to record by a historian of that present time.

FF Bruce said this:
There are in existence about 5,000 Greek manuscripts of the New Testament in whole or in part. The best and most important of these go back to somewhere about AD 350, the two most important being the Codex Vaticanus, the chief treasure of the Vatican Library in Rome, and the well-known Codex Sinaiticus, which the British Government purchased from the Soviet Government for £100,000 on Christmas Day, 1933, and which is now the chief treasure of the British Museum. Two other important early MSS in this country are the Codex Alexandrinus, also in the British Museum, written in the fifth century, and the Codex Bezae:, in Cambridge University Library, written in the fifth or sixth century, and containing the Gospels and Acts in both Greek and Latin.

Perhaps we can appreciate how wealthy the New Testament is in manuscript attestation if we compare the textual material for other ancient historical works. For Caesar’s Gallic War (composed between 58 and 50 BC) there are several extant MSS, but only nine or ten are good, and the oldest is some 900 years later than Caesar’s day. Of the 142 books of the Roman History of Livy (59 BC-AD 17) only thirty five survive; these are known to us from not more than twenty MSS of any consequence, only one of which, and that containing fragments of Books iii-vi, is as old as the fourth century. Of the fourteen books of the Histories of Tacitus (c. AD 100) only four and a half survive; of the sixteen books of his Annals, ten survive in full and two in part. The text of these extant portions of has two great historical works depends entirely on two MSS, one of the ninth century and one of the eleventh. The extant MSS of his minor works (Dialogue dc Oratoribus, Agricola, Gcrmania) all descend from a codex of the tenth century. The History of Thucydides (c. 460-400 BC) is known to us from eight MSS, the earliest belonging to c. AD 900, and a few papyrus scraps, belonging to about the beginning of the Christian era. The same is true of the History of Herodotus (c. 488-428 BC). Yet no classical scholar would listen to an argument that the authenticity of Herodotus or Thucydides is in doubt because the earliest MSS of their works which are of any use to us are over 1,300 years later than the originals. . . .

To sum up, we may quote the verdict of the late Sir Frederic Kenyon, a scholar whose authority to make pronouncements on ancient MSS was second to none:

‘The interval then between the data of original. composition and the earliest extant evidence become so small to be in fact negligible, and the last foundation for any doubt that the Scripture have come down to us substantially as they were written has now been removed. Both the authenticity and the general integrity of the books of the New Testament may be regarded as finally established.’​

I assume that, for consistency, since you are that critical about Jesus you also dismiss Plato, Herodotus, etc?

Just because the Bible records miracles, does not invalidate it's authenticity. It doesn't invalidate the history. Whether the miracles happened is another issue - but to claim that Jesus did not exist, and to claim that historians who say otherwise are "your so called historians" doesn't negate the fact that Jesus existed.
 
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