When is it right to take action and when is it right to leave an issue to God?

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I've lived through a lot and recently dealt with a family member and her corrupt lawyer in probate court. They attempted to exceed the will and the lawyer threatened he would sue me if I didn't sign the paper he concocted taking thousands from my share. I was fortunate - this time - that I had an honest judge. Yet the woman lawyer who worked in the office "misplaced" my Motion and then returned it to me saying it was "filed too late" when she knows she lied. The court time-stamps every piece of mail that comes in. I sent in letter after letter that she apparently threw in the trash and no one ever answered me.

My husband and I believe it was pretty obvious she was corrupt - that she was helping out the corrupt lawyer by intentionally misplacing my Motion. I ended up withdrawing it because of the shenanigans and I lost around $200 - $600 because of that corrupt lawyer working in the probate office.

I know God tells us to forgive but is it my duty to report that corrupt lawyer who works in the probate office? I always have a struggle with what action I'm supposed to take and what I'm to leave for God to handle. What she did was despicable. I had faxed the freeholders and she called with another court worker asking for an apology. It was so wrong - she should have apologized to me. She knows what she did - and she was foolish and put her job on the line to help out one of her buddies. She whined that she didn't want her job affected. If she didn't want her job affected she shouldn't have engaged in corruption.

This is the 4th time my family and I caught someone in the government doing something corrupt. The lawyer that threatened me thinks he's untouchable because his boss is a big-shot lawyer in our area, yet the big shot's son was a drug drug in town - and who never got caught and is now a lawyer. Thousands of young lives were ruined - and some died - while that lawyer and his drug-dealing son got rich by the father representing all the people in town who his son sold drugs to.

I've seen such corruption and I'm wondering when God is going to act. Has anyone else dealt with government corruption? If so, did you try to hold the person accountable?

I always seem to have an issue where I have to decide what my responsibility is vs what is to be left up to God. Do others struggle with this? I tend to be proactive so it's often hard for me to do nothing.
 
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I've lived through a lot and recently dealt with a family member and her corrupt lawyer in probate court. They attempted to exceed the will and the lawyer threatened he would sue me if I didn't sign the paper he concocted taking thousands from my share. I was fortunate - this time - that I had an honest judge. Yet the woman lawyer who worked in the office "misplaced" my Motion and then returned it to me saying it was "filed too late" when she knows she lied. The court time-stamps every piece of mail that comes in. I sent in letter after letter that she apparently threw in the trash and no one ever answered me.

My husband and I believe it was pretty obvious she was corrupt - that she was helping out the corrupt lawyer by intentionally misplacing my Motion. I ended up withdrawing it because of the shenanigans and I lost around $200 - $600 because of that corrupt lawyer working in the probate office.

I know God tells us to forgive but is it my duty to report that corrupt lawyer who works in the probate office? I always have a struggle with what action I'm supposed to take and what I'm to leave for God to handle. What she did was despicable. I had faxed the freeholders and she called with another court worker asking for an apology. It was so wrong - she should have apologized to me. She knows what she did - and she was foolish and put her job on the line to help out one of her buddies. She whined that she didn't want her job affected. If she didn't want her job affected she shouldn't have engaged in corruption.

This is the 4th time my family and I caught someone in the government doing something corrupt. The lawyer that threatened me thinks he's untouchable because his boss is a big-shot lawyer in our area, yet the big shot's son was a drug drug in town - and who never got caught and is now a lawyer. Thousands of young lives were ruined - and some died - while that lawyer and his drug-dealing son got rich by the father representing all the people in town who his son sold drugs to.

I've seen such corruption and I'm wondering when God is going to act. Has anyone else dealt with government corruption? If so, did you try to hold the person accountable?

I always seem to have an issue where I have to decide what my responsibility is vs what is to be left up to God. Do others struggle with this? I tend to be proactive so it's often hard for me to do nothing.

Put it in God your Father's hands, the way Christ said here --

1 Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. 2 He said: “In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared what people thought.3 And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, ‘Grant me justice against my adversary.’

4 “For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, ‘Even though I don’t fear God or care what people think, 5 yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won’t eventually come and attack me!’ ”

6 And the Lord said, “Listen to what the unjust judge says. 7 And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? 8 I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?”

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See, your right action to take is to pray, and ask for help, from above, from your Father in heaven. Ask for help for yourself, and that people be guided or corrected to do right. Trust that God will find a way, in His time. Believe. Have faith as you pray, and leave it in God's hands, and focus your mind instead on listening to Christ's words (daily) for the peace we all so much need in life --

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
 
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The situation can be complex.

As far as "getting even" or " getting what's owed us" ... much of the time we should leave that in God's hands. (Always for getting even, and it depends on getting what we are owed.)

There is never anything wrong with pointing out corruption in some kind of institution that could harm others.

However, we should never seek to expose the sins of persons for the sake of shaming them, especially brothers and sisters in Christ.

We should act always with love as our guiding determiner. It can be loving to expose corruption so that others are protected. It is loving to ourselves not to hold a grudge that leads bitterness to grow. It can be loving to a person who struggles not to expose their sin. Except --- if their sin is habitual and harms others, then back to protecting others.

God isn't in the getting revenge game. He is always at work to draw people to Him, and will use our sins to benefit others if He can (meaning if we cooperate). So evil may continue for as long as it might be used to benefit someone somehow. When it is nothing but destructive, and no redemption will come of it, He will cut it off.

If you are aware of evil in an institution, you aren't wrong to report it. But we must watch our own hearts at the same time, so as not to be drawn into bitterness.

God be with you.
 
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