Thank you and I am doing ok with things so far, I will handle it because I have too and Dad wanted it this way. Dad was a very private person and didn't trust many people and stayed to himself mostely. The family that swoops in, is those who noone has heard from in twenty years and yet all the sudden they care so much, and they would also like to look in the garage and check on things for me.
I know Dads best friend is one that owns the farm next door to Dads and I will give him some stuff that will bless him because he brush hogged and sprayed and all that for Dad on the place.
They were Buds :] He came and seen me and he is just mortified as well.
I have a key that was in the safe that I can't figure out. It is very heavy and strange and says 71 on it. I will send a pic here and hopefully someone can tell me what it would be