What would the father in the prodigal son story "do" to have this younger son, become like himself? He has taken an unbelievable insult from this young man, given this son money he knows will be wasted, and he has not gone after the son in hopes he will change (if he sends servants after this son he will come back even more belligerent), and the father than waits in hopes of the son’s repentance. The father like God is not going to force us into humbly correctly accepting his pure charity (Love) but will do everything He can to persuade us.
God is allowing this unbelievable huge act of Love in allowing His only son to be tortured, humiliated and murdered, but to say it is to help satan or Himself to accomplish some task, takes the benefit away from humans, while humans seem to be the reason.
If this huge ransom payment is made “for sinful man” then why not “to sinful man”, if it would help sinful man to repent? (That is also what “for” means it is given “to” you).
When the Kingdom does come on the day of Pentecost (Acts 2) what would Christ do to help humble 3000 enough to repent, accept forgiveness (pure charity), and take on the indwelling portion of the Holy Spirit? This is not going to be easy for these 3000, because the Messiah is dead, they have an excellent God given religious belief and do not listen to strange teachers and strange teaching.
Do they not have to fearfully ask “What must we do?” to accept the baptism answer at this time (Acts 2:38?
But for them to ask that question do they first have to experience a death blow to their heart (Acts 2:37)?
How will they experience that death blow without first feeling they just tortured, humiliated and murdered the Messiah?
Yet how can they know they crucified the Messiah unless Peter tells them “You crucified the Messiah”?
And how can Peter say: “you crucified the Messiah”, if Christ does not go to the cross?
Is Christ’s Love for those who crucified him, great enough for Him to allow wicked men to crucify him, so they could feel a death blow to their heart to be humble enough to accept salvation?
It works for us today also.