The One forming light and creating darkness, Causing well-being and creating calamity; I am the LORD who does all these.
(Isaiah 45:7 NASB)
The word translated calamity is often translated as evil, but it also means calamity. God is not the author of moral evil, although He may judge us for our evil and the resulting calamity may seem evil to us.
Then the LORD God said, "Behold, the man has become like one of Us, knowing good and evil; and now, he might stretch out his hand, and take also from the tree of life, and eat, and live forever"—
(Genesis 3:22 NASB)
Knowing good and evil does not make one evil... doing evil makes one evil.
And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.
(Romans 8:28 NASB)
God is ultimately in control of history, no one is denying that fact. No matter what evil befalls us in this fallen world, if we love and trust God, He will use it to bring about our ultimate good (which is found in verse 29: our conformity to the image of Christ).
(Romans 9:11-22 NASB)
(11) for though the twins were not yet born and had not done anything good or bad, so that God's purpose according to His choice would stand, not because of works but because of Him who calls,
God chose Jacob according to His foreknowledge (1 Peter 1:1-2).
(12) it was said to her, "THE OLDER WILL SERVE THE YOUNGER." (13) Just as it is written, "JACOB I LOVED, BUT ESAU I HATED."
Again, all based upon God's foreknowledge. BTW: Verse 13 is quoting Malachi 1:2-3, which was written hundreds of years after their life.
(14) What shall we say then? There is no injustice with God, is there? May it never be!
There is no injustice with God! God is not the author of moral evil!
(15) For He says to Moses, "I WILL HAVE MERCY ON WHOM I HAVE MERCY, AND I WILL HAVE COMPASSION ON WHOM I HAVE COMPASSION." (16) So then it does not depend on the man who wills or the man who runs, but on God who has mercy.
Note in verse 16 that a man does will things... but God's election is not dependent upon our willpower, our ability to earn it by good works, but upon God who shows mercy in Jesus Christ our Lord. Apart from Christ, no one would be saved!
(17) For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, "FOR THIS VERY PURPOSE I RAISED YOU UP, TO DEMONSTRATE MY POWER IN YOU, AND THAT MY NAME MIGHT BE PROCLAIMED THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE EARTH." (18) So then He has mercy on whom He desires, and He hardens whom He desires.
God has the authority and ability to do this if He chooses... He is God! Also note that in Exodus Pharaoh first hardened his own heart, and then God confirmed his will by hardening his heart in opposition to Him.
(19) You will say to me then, "Why does He still find fault? For who resists His will?" (20) On the contrary, who are you, O man, who answers back to God? The thing molded will not say to the molder, "Why did you make me like this," will it?
Indeed. God has both the ability and the moral authority (because He is good and knows all things) to do this if he so chooses. But this is not the default way that God deals with man on an everyday basis.
(21) Or does not the potter have a right over the clay, to make from the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for common use? (22) What if God, although willing to demonstrate His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction?
God creates all mankind, and even as He creates them He knows what they will become. God, in His foreknowledge, sees what each vessel will become, and treats each vessel accordingly in the judgment.
I see nothing here that changes my position.