Buzz_B
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As a parent, we feed our children and supply all of their needs for a good number of years.
One thing many of us do, is, we put things in place to teach our children to be generous, empathetic toward others, respectful, and responsible. That is, we do these things if we are a good parent.
We often offer our children what are called incentives in the form of a modest monetary allowance and/or additional privileges which we do not really have to give them of our appreciation for their doing what we ask of them which is really for their benefit in leaning values which will make their life better even long after they leave the nest.
Most of us have experienced the child who rebels and accuses us of making them our slave merely because we require of them what is for their own good.
Ergo those who insist that because God asks of us that we do what is good for us it means salvation is no longer a free gift.
Although the parent could have chosen not to even have children, the parent chose to have them and to be responsible for their care, before these children ever even knew what life was.
Still, we find some of them who when not getting things their way, and when insisting they have a right to this and that, and intimating that the parent is cruel for denying it to them, they retort, "I did not ask to be born."
I have to say it like it is. That brat attitude is all this free gift doctrine has been twisted into by many. God owes them this and so if he asks them to do anything for their own good and to learn appreciation, suddenly they claim they are earning God's grace (his goodness and generosity).
Very sad. They render it difficult for God to teach them the same as the spoiled child makes it difficult for a parent to teach them. Haughtiness, "I should not have to do anything because you owe me!" Only disguised under a claim that the Scriptures support that they do not have to do anything. So that they even deceive themselves as to what they are really saying.
One thing many of us do, is, we put things in place to teach our children to be generous, empathetic toward others, respectful, and responsible. That is, we do these things if we are a good parent.
We often offer our children what are called incentives in the form of a modest monetary allowance and/or additional privileges which we do not really have to give them of our appreciation for their doing what we ask of them which is really for their benefit in leaning values which will make their life better even long after they leave the nest.
Most of us have experienced the child who rebels and accuses us of making them our slave merely because we require of them what is for their own good.
Ergo those who insist that because God asks of us that we do what is good for us it means salvation is no longer a free gift.
Although the parent could have chosen not to even have children, the parent chose to have them and to be responsible for their care, before these children ever even knew what life was.
Still, we find some of them who when not getting things their way, and when insisting they have a right to this and that, and intimating that the parent is cruel for denying it to them, they retort, "I did not ask to be born."
I have to say it like it is. That brat attitude is all this free gift doctrine has been twisted into by many. God owes them this and so if he asks them to do anything for their own good and to learn appreciation, suddenly they claim they are earning God's grace (his goodness and generosity).
Very sad. They render it difficult for God to teach them the same as the spoiled child makes it difficult for a parent to teach them. Haughtiness, "I should not have to do anything because you owe me!" Only disguised under a claim that the Scriptures support that they do not have to do anything. So that they even deceive themselves as to what they are really saying.
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