Another passage is 1 Corinthians 7, which is worth reading through and studying also.Delivered
I am HAPPILY married to my husband! We have been married for 7 years and have two beautiful children. A friend of mine is going through divorce and she is telling me that she can never ever remarry because that would make her an adulterer. He husband cheated and is living with his gf for the last 3 years almost, and says he wants to marry his gf. She said that she would wait until he comes back one day... she is 100% sure he will come back one day. I always thought once you are divorced, the “innocent” spouse CAN re marry. But she made a very interesting point that I had never noticed in the Bible before, simply because I never really dug down into this whole “divorce and remarriage” stuff. She said that the original word used in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 (the only two exeptional clauses) for divorce was “inappropriate contenteia” and it was ONLY for the Jews during the Betrothal Period. Nowhere in the other gospels did Jesus say it is OK to divorce your spouse. She says Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not apply to us to today. She also says that unless you get out of your second or third marriages, saved or not you will never inherit the kingdom of heaven unless you repent. (1 Corinthians 6:9) This is hard to swallow since I have loved ones who have remarried and now I am concerned about their salvation. Any thoughts on this? The Bible says that there is NO condemnation in those who are in Christ Jesus. The Old is gone and the New has come... The Bible also says that Christ died for us WHILE we were sinners, and that we are Saved By Grace through faith... So should be ignore all those verses and try to “repent” in order to inherent the kingdom of Heaven? Should people in 2nd or 3rd marriages divorce? She says that 2nd or 3rd marriages are not real/valid marriages to God so they should end and the spouse either remain single or go back to their first husband/wife. Please, let me know your thoughts and use Biblical answers.
I am HAPPILY married to my husband! We have been married for 7 years and have two beautiful children. A friend of mine is going through divorce and she is telling me that she can never ever remarry because that would make her an adulterer. He husband cheated and is living with his gf for the last 3 years almost, and says he wants to marry his gf. She said that she would wait until he comes back one day... she is 100% sure he will come back one day. I always thought once you are divorced, the “innocent” spouse CAN re marry. But she made a very interesting point that I had never noticed in the Bible before, simply because I never really dug down into this whole “divorce and remarriage” stuff. She said that the original word used in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 (the only two exeptional clauses) for divorce was “inappropriate contenteia” and it was ONLY for the Jews during the Betrothal Period. Nowhere in the other gospels did Jesus say it is OK to divorce your spouse. She says Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not apply to us to today.
2 Timothy 3:
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 that the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.
She also says that unless you get out of your second or third marriages, saved or not you will never inherit the kingdom of heaven unless you repent. (1 Corinthians 6:9) This is hard to swallow since I have loved ones who have remarried and now I am concerned about their salvation. Any thoughts on this? The Bible says that there is NO condemnation in those who are in Christ Jesus. The Old is gone and the New has come... The Bible also says that Christ died for us WHILE we were sinners, and that we are Saved By Grace through faith... So should be ignore all those verses and try to “repent” in order to inherent the kingdom of Heaven? Should people in 2nd or 3rd marriages divorce? She says that 2nd or 3rd marriages are not real/valid marriages to God so they should end and the spouse either remain single or go back to their first husband/wife. Please, let me know your thoughts and use Biblical answers.
She said that she would wait until he comes back one day... she is 100% sure he will come back one day.
If a man divorces his wife and she goes from him and becomes another man’s wife, will he return to her? Would not that land be greatly polluted? You have played the harlot with many lovers; and would you return to me? declares the LORD.
She says Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not apply to us to today.
I am HAPPILY married to my husband! We have been married for 7 years and have two beautiful children. A friend of mine is going through divorce and she is telling me that she can never ever remarry because that would make her an adulterer. He husband cheated and is living with his gf for the last 3 years almost, and says he wants to marry his gf. She said that she would wait until he comes back one day... she is 100% sure he will come back one day. I always thought once you are divorced, the “innocent” spouse CAN re marry. But she made a very interesting point that I had never noticed in the Bible before, simply because I never really dug down into this whole “divorce and remarriage” stuff. She said that the original word used in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 (the only two exeptional clauses) for divorce was “inappropriate contenteia” and it was ONLY for the Jews during the Betrothal Period. Nowhere in the other gospels did Jesus say it is OK to divorce your spouse. She says Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not apply to us to today. She also says that unless you get out of your second or third marriages, saved or not you will never inherit the kingdom of heaven unless you repent. (1 Corinthians 6:9) This is hard to swallow since I have loved ones who have remarried and now I am concerned about their salvation. Any thoughts on this? The Bible says that there is NO condemnation in those who are in Christ Jesus. The Old is gone and the New has come... The Bible also says that Christ died for us WHILE we were sinners, and that we are Saved By Grace through faith... So should be ignore all those verses and try to “repent” in order to inherent the kingdom of Heaven? Should people in 2nd or 3rd marriages divorce? She says that 2nd or 3rd marriages are not real/valid marriages to God so they should end and the spouse either remain single or go back to their first husband/wife. Please, let me know your thoughts and use Biblical answers.
She says Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not apply to us to today. She also says that unless you get out of your second or third marriages, saved or not you will never inherit the kingdom of heaven unless you repent
If they don't apply then what rule/law is she applying about divorce?
Divorce is not part of God's plan for us, but it happens because of hard unloving hearts.
The innocent party is free to remary and if a Christian has nothing to fear.
But...if the unjustly divorced woman is free to remarry, why then does Jesus still call it adultery?
"whover divorces" for reasons other than "fornication (sexual sin), causes her to commit adultery".
In other words, either the wife is held responsible for adulterating the union if she goes astray, or the husband is held responsible for her adultery if she remarries after he divorces her, though she has done no wrong.
Jesus clearly uses both "inappropriate contentiea" as the exception, and "Moicheia" as the result. While inappropriate contenteia can cover all sexual sins, it
My brother inlaw said he knew he was committing adultery when marrying my sister who was divorced.
And the bible is clear no unrepentant adulterer will enter heaven.
David was absolutley repentant and his discipline for his was pretty severe, albeit fair of course.Do you believe that David was an unrepentant adulterer, and is in hell now?
David was absolutley repentant and his discipline for his was pretty severe, albeit fair of course.
Bathsheba` husband was dead, so he wasnt in continued adultery, and to refuse marriage to her after impregnating her would be further sin now that she was widowed because of him.
That would seem to imply that if all the women, or their new husbands, would simply kill off their ex, and then repent, they could all live without being in continual sin.
That doesn't work for me.
There has to be an answer that fits with our world. Otherwise, we have literally millions of men and women, that should all completely destroy their families for the sake of avoiding continual sin.
I don't think G-d would approve of millions of people destroying their marriages, their children, and their homes, because the ex-spouse is alive and they are doomed to hell unless they ruin absolutely everyone's lives that are connected to this.
And I have a real problem with "Well if he was dead...." being the solution to avoiding continual sin.
Now I get it, you want to avoid divorce in the first case, and I agree completely the damage is severe. But to suggest that people should divorce again to avoid continual sin... that's tough for me to grasp.
It wouldn`t work for most people are not kings that are subject to no one but God. Yes people could murder to remarry and many actually do, but none actually get away with it, for their blood cries out and God hears. Have you not read the Prov 28:17 ?
Your words above "I do not think God would...." suggest to me you don`t know what God thinks and are merely guessing based on your emotions. Whatever your take on what Jesus told his disciples about divorce and remarriage , it totally shocked them and was 180 degree polarised from the divorce remarriage culture of Israelites in those days.
Its a very difficult thing to me too. I have friends and family that are remarried. I struggle too that God would want second divorces and breaking up of homes. I am not removed from the pain and complications, i was married to a divorced woman 7 yrs, and long story short, my children grew up with their mother and i lived through agony. I did try to marry again a few times,but the Lord prevented me and saved me in hindsight from some very bad choices.
But let us imagine a great end time revival breaks out and remarried Christians everywhere put away their 2nd marriages and many first spouses having come to Christ now have a new heart and these first marriages a marvelously healed and restored.
What do you think will be the effect on non christians contemplating or having divorced and remarried?
Yeah, I've read Prov 28:17. But you just cited David as being repentant, and he did stay King, and he kept the girl, and it was the offspring of that wedding that ruled Israel after David.
So... as long as you murder the ex, then everything is ok. That's how David wasn't living in perpetual sin, right? That just seems like a insane view.
Of course I don't know what G-d thinks. His ways are higher than mine, that's for sure. I have no idea what G-d thinks. Saying I can't imagine that is what he thinks, doesn't mean I know his thoughts. It could be. It's possible you are entirely right. I don't know, and I can't see that, but maybe you are on the right.
People getting back with ex-spouses, is extremely rare. When it does happen, it happens usually when neither person ever gets with a new spouse.
I have not yet, ever heard of someone who divorced, finding a new mate, getting married and having a family... and then divorce them and going back to their ex and actually having it work.
I assume that has happened. But I would wager that is less likely than winning the lottery, from 3 different states, on the same day.
I've been involved in marriage counseling discussions for about 15 years. I have not heard a single time of that happening yet. Again, I assume it has, but it sure hasn't been anywhere that I have heard about it.
The woman Jesus is talking about is the one divorce because she is unfaithfull.But...if the unjustly divorced woman is free to remarry, why then does Jesus still call it adultery?
"whover divorces" for reasons other than "fornication (sexual sin), causes her to commit adultery".
In other words, either the wife is held responsible for adulterating the union if she goes astray, or the husband is held responsible for her adultery if she remarries after he divorces her, though she has done no wrong.
Jesus clearly uses both "inappropriate contentiea" as the exception, and "Moicheia" as the result. While inappropriate contenteia can cover all sexual sins, it
My brother inlaw said he knew he was committing adultery when marrying my sister who was divorced.
And the bible is clear no unrepentant adulterer will enter heaven.