A lot of people are meeting online . One of my friends met her bf online , and they are happy. Anyone of you have tried online dating? How was your experience and what sites did you use?
If you don't mind me asking? Why are you deleting CM?I've been trying to delete a ChristianMingle profile for two days now. But I know of two or three couples now on CF that are doing the online dating thing. Maybe they will post
I don't mind you asking if you don't mind me not telling.If you don't mind me asking? Why are you deleting CM?
For those of you that have met people from an online dating site, how long did you talk to the person before meeting them in person? I have talked to a few guys for like two weeks and they are ready to meet. I just don't feel that talking to someone for only two weeks is long enough to meet someone that you met online.
I've only tried whatsapp but it's very local (near your place).
I guess if you're a woman, you'll have tons of guys checking you out so you have plenty of choices.
As a guy, I have far fewer checkouts. One a day on average. Much fewer choices, and I really don't have time to check a million profiles so I only check those who check me out.
There are many online dating sites favoring female members (men have to pay to unlock certain options!)
Sometimes my chances are better at the foodcourt in the mall. Of course, that means going out to the mall everyday at lunch and don't always have time for that.
I guess online option is good if you can choose and discern wisely. Other than that, any activities where you get lots of opportunity to meet singles will be great.
Yeah, I gave up on online dating months ago. If you're a man, forget any kind of response, because women have their inboxes completely full.
That's very insightful information!
I noticed I almost never get a reply from anyone I message. There a way more (relatively speaking) who sends me message whom I never messaged first.
There's quite a few among these that I messaged first but they usually reply after a few weeks so I doubt they are replying to my earlier message but decided to browse themselves.
That's usually because we get so many messages that we can't reply to them all. When I was on eHarmony I got 300 messages in the first week. There was no way to reply to all of them even though I would have liked to.That's very insightful information!
I noticed I almost never get a reply from anyone I message. There a way more (relatively speaking) who sends me message whom I never messaged first.
There's quite a few among these that I messaged first but they usually reply after a few weeks so I doubt they are replying to my earlier message but decided to browse themselves.
That's usually because we get so many messages that we can't reply to them all. When I was on eHarmony I got 300 messages in the first week. There was no way to reply to all of them even though I would have liked to.
As far as I know they only limit the amount of profiles you can browse. Supposedly you can only see your matches, but most all of the messages I received were from people that I did not have on my matches list.Really?
I thought Eharmony pretty much limited the amount of emails as I thought they had a very strict vetting process.
That's true.For me it's generally one to two weeks. The subject of meeting tends to come up after about a week of talking online (although we've usually moved onto texting by that stage), which can mean up to another week before we actually get together because of getting schedules to align.
For me I want to meet in person as soon as possible as talking online can only get you so far when it comes to getting to know someone, and talking face to face is far more effective. In a half-hour conversation in person you can easily have more in depth discussions and cover more things than you might in a day's worth of text messages.
If you meet someone in real life and hit if off you're probably going to want to go on a date with them sooner rather than later even if you don't know them all that well, and I don't think it should be all that different with meeting someone online.