We hear it all the time: God loves you. I struggle to figure out what that looks like on a practical, here-and-now basis? I can identify lots of things that it *doesn't* mean:
- God won't let me get sick
- God will heal me when I do get sick
- God will make me happy
- God won't let me lose my job
And there are many more. Can we have a discussion on what it means, practically, to say that God loves us?
I used to measure God's love by my circumstances.
Have a bad day at school? God didn't love me.
Get teased by my brothers? God didn't love me.
Get told off for something I had/hadn't done - including homework and revising? God didn't love me.
Have a good day at school? God did love me.
Find a job/do well in it? God did love me.
And so on.
But God has showed me how much he loves me by the cross. When I was a sinner; grumbling about how he didn't love me, how rubbish my life was, how others had it easier, failing to accept his word etc - his Son died for me.
What does this mean for me, now?
THIS is love, that Jesus Christ gave his life for us, 1 John 3:16
While we were sinners, Christ died for us, Romans 5:8
He chose us, in him, before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight, Ephesians 1:4
God is for us, who can be against us? Romans 8:31
Nothing can separate us from the love of God, Romans 8:38-39.
God loves me.
He didn't wait for me to be perfect, or even adequate, before he accepted me.
He is for me, he approves of ME - not always what I do, but me, as a person.
He loved me before I was even born, before I could do anything at all for him and before I knew him.
Nothing - not all the bad days and experiences in the world - can change his love for me or stop him from loving me.
This makes me feel happy, thankful, awe-struck, grateful, accepted, loved and secure.
The fact that God loves me doesn't guarantee that this temporary life in this sinful, fallen world will be perfect/happy/acceptable/healthy/comfortable - these things are NOT an indication of how much God loves me.
Other people may believe that outward circumstances are an indication of God's love, but we are told to live by faith and not by sight, 2 Corinthians 5:7.