For years I have been trying to grown stronger with my faith and yet I have slowly slid away. I am doubting the truth in the word, although I do believe in God and Jesus died for our sins. What is free will, and what is Gods so called plan? Apparently for the longest time I thought he did. I was dealt with the struggle of a mental disorder that used to try to see as the silver lining to grown stronger. I am 42 now and never been married while I have been in relationships with amazing women, only to have my illness destroy it in the end. Each time I loose faith in Gods plan for me, and question the truth in the word.
A lot has transpired over the last few weeks that has really made me explore by belief and I want to but cant. After a year my the most amazing girl I ever been with who was the only one that ever fully accepted me and I fully trusted. I carry wounds from all of my prior relationships that my illness been the main core of the splits. I pictured her a long time ago, and thought my prayer was answered. In the end my illness drover her away, and was to much for her. I have finally lost all will to consider another after all is see over my past is digression in time while all along I have fought and fought to be stronger.
Here is main part that makes me question. Ironically my church and her church had sermons on the topic of godly relationships. So this pulled me back and wanted to try again. She told me she is moving on and so should I. This week alone I have seen the 4 numbers of her birthday popped up. This last time today, it popped up and minutes later I received an email about how to rekindle marriages/relationship through a faith based boot camp. To me it feels like a sick joke and I only drives the knife even deeper. I dont believe in irony, but I have lost the will to believe what the word says about his will for me.
A lot has transpired over the last few weeks that has really made me explore by belief and I want to but cant. After a year my the most amazing girl I ever been with who was the only one that ever fully accepted me and I fully trusted. I carry wounds from all of my prior relationships that my illness been the main core of the splits. I pictured her a long time ago, and thought my prayer was answered. In the end my illness drover her away, and was to much for her. I have finally lost all will to consider another after all is see over my past is digression in time while all along I have fought and fought to be stronger.
Here is main part that makes me question. Ironically my church and her church had sermons on the topic of godly relationships. So this pulled me back and wanted to try again. She told me she is moving on and so should I. This week alone I have seen the 4 numbers of her birthday popped up. This last time today, it popped up and minutes later I received an email about how to rekindle marriages/relationship through a faith based boot camp. To me it feels like a sick joke and I only drives the knife even deeper. I dont believe in irony, but I have lost the will to believe what the word says about his will for me.