- Nov 25, 2017
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My wife just had a hysterectomy (she is doing well, by the way, and I thank all of you for your prayers), and so, with four children given to us by God, we are now finished having children.
Between the children and our busy lives with work and school, my wife and I have lived more as roommates, even best friends, more than we have husband and wife, for quite a long time. Our marriage isn't in danger, and we love each other dearly, but we can't honestly say that we haven't neglected each other emotionally. However, we have always had a very active and healthy sex life.
What I would like is for us to refrain from sexual relations for awhile. There are no children to be had. It's all pleasure. I would like to replace sex for the time being with conversation, dates, and other such things. I would like for us to be with each other emotionally and not just physically, to build our relationship and bond back up to what it once was, and then in time, be with each other intimately again, and appreciate it much more, and love each other much more.
Does anyone have any experience doing something like this? Is this a good idea? And if so, how should I bring it up to my wife?
Between the children and our busy lives with work and school, my wife and I have lived more as roommates, even best friends, more than we have husband and wife, for quite a long time. Our marriage isn't in danger, and we love each other dearly, but we can't honestly say that we haven't neglected each other emotionally. However, we have always had a very active and healthy sex life.
What I would like is for us to refrain from sexual relations for awhile. There are no children to be had. It's all pleasure. I would like to replace sex for the time being with conversation, dates, and other such things. I would like for us to be with each other emotionally and not just physically, to build our relationship and bond back up to what it once was, and then in time, be with each other intimately again, and appreciate it much more, and love each other much more.
Does anyone have any experience doing something like this? Is this a good idea? And if so, how should I bring it up to my wife?