I think I'm not choosing friends wisely

Lanae · Jan 14, 2018

Hey my friend told me that this Korean dude name Joongul said something negative about me. He said that I'm some crazy a black girl, I'm a Something creep and Something up in the head. He said something about sharing his pictures to my facebook profile. Is there any thing nice and positive he can say about me??? How is he going to expect to have some nice friends and a nice girl friend while he's being a negative Nancy to me? How is Kwon, Joseph, Isaiah, going to have some nice friends and a nice girl friend while they're being a negative Nancy to me?

How are they going to expect some positive remarks after being a negative Nancy to me?

Is there anything nice and positive they can say about me???

I can't believe I'm hanging out with people who never motivate, encourage and inspire me

I had some Asian friends in high school and they ignored me, cussed me out, complain about me being a stalker, telling others to ignore me and running away from me.

They never motivated, encouraged or inspired me. They just bored me out. They never even strike up a conversation with me and they never help me out.

I think cussing, getting angry, complaining, spreading gossip, ignoring, running away from me, leaving me negative messages, saying negative things about me behind my back and being a negative Nancy to me is not going to help

and reporting me to the cops or dean of students is not going to help either

I just needed some help and they never cared about that

they don't seem to care about my feelings when they send me negative messages like cussing at me and telling me not to talk to them

Humble me Lord · Jan 14, 2018

I think I would look for friends that didn't treat me badly.

God is good · Jan 14, 2018

Lanae said:
Hey my friend told me that this Korean dude name Joongul said something negative about me. He said that I'm some crazy a black girl, I'm a Something creep and Something up in the head. He said something about sharing his pictures to my facebook profile. Is there any thing nice and positive he can say about me??? How is he going to expect to have some nice friends and a nice girl friend while he's being a negative Nancy to me? How is Kwon, Joseph, Isaiah, going to have some nice friends and a nice girl friend while they're being a negative Nancy to me?

How are they going to expect some positive remarks after being a negative Nancy to me?

Is there anything nice and positive they can say about me???

I can't believe I'm hanging out with people who never motivate, encourage and inspire me

I had some Asian friends in high school and they ignored me, cussed me out, complain about me being a stalker, telling others to ignore me and running away from me.

They never motivated, encouraged or inspired me. They just bored me out. They never even strike up a conversation with me and they never help me out.

I think cussing, getting angry, complaining, spreading gossip, ignoring, running away from me, leaving me negative messages, saying negative things about me behind my back and being a negative Nancy to me is not going to help

and reporting me to the cops or dean of students is not going to help either

I just needed some help and they never cared about that

Very sorry you had to go through that, remember Jesus cares about you and He is the best friend you could ever have. Please feel free to message me anytime and we can talk about whatever you want. God bless you and Jesus is Lord.

Humble me Lord · Jan 15, 2018

Try keeping this thread active. Post more here, like are you trying to find new friends now? You might even find a new friend here on CF.
God bless you

Lanae · Jan 15, 2018

Humble me Lord said:
Try keeping this thread active. Post more here, like are you trying to find new friends now? You might even find a new friend here on CF.
God bless you

I'm trying to get my friends to care about me and do something for me, not ignore me

Humble me Lord · Jan 15, 2018

Try keeping this thread active. Post more here, like are you trying to find new friends now? You might even find a new friend here on CF.
God bless you

Humble me Lord · Jan 15, 2018

I think you should find some new friends, that treat you better

Jenniferdiana · Jan 15, 2018

sometimes its just better to keep to yourself....

Dave-W · Jan 15, 2018

You need new friends, Lanae.

Lanae · Jan 16, 2018

God is good said:
Very sorry you had to go through that, remember Jesus cares about you and He is the best friend you could ever have. Please feel free to message me anytime and we can talk about whatever you want. God bless you and Jesus is Lord.

Humble me Lord said:
I think you should find some new friends, that treat you better

Jenniferdiana said:
sometimes its just better to keep to yourself....

Dave-W said:
You need new friends, Lanae.

they don't seem to care about my feelings when they send me negative messages like cussing me out, telling me not to talk to them and saying all these harsh words etc

God is good · Jan 16, 2018

Lanae said:
they don't seem to care about my feelings when they send me negative messages like cussing me out, telling me not to talk to them and saying all these harsh words etc

If it helps you can have friends on here because a lot of people here care for each other and God loves us and Jesus loves us and we are all God's blessed children. God bless you and Jesus is Lord.

Lanae · Jan 16, 2018

God is good said:
If it helps you can have friends on here because a lot of people here care for each other and God loves us and Jesus loves us and we are all God's blessed children. God bless you and Jesus is Lord.

when I first started community college, I was thinking about getting a Korean boyfriend, 3 years later from 2014 to 2017, I see Korean men from my church cussing me out and leaving negative messages on social media. I think i made a mistake for trying to find Korean boyfriend on my own

Dave-W · Jan 16, 2018

Mountainmanbob · Jan 16, 2018

Took time but, I have learned that a very few (good friends) is a lot better than a bunch of so called friends.

Stick (only) with ones who like you and treat you as they would wish to be treated.

M-Bob

God is good · Jan 16, 2018

Lanae said:
when I first started community college, I was thinking about getting a Korean boyfriend, 3 years later from 2014 to 2017, I see Korean men from my church cussing me out and leaving negative messages on social media. I think i made a mistake for trying to find Korean boyfriend on my own

I'm sorry to hear that but the people on here are very kind.

Lanae · Jan 17, 2018

God is good said:
I'm sorry to hear that but the people on here are very kind.

I'm gonna get my nice friends to send them mean and harsh messages on facebook and Instagram and and let them see it feels to be bombarded with negativity. I hope negativity will go right back to them

Mountainmanbob · Jan 17, 2018

Lanae said:
I'm gonna get my nice friends to send them mean and harsh messages on facebook and Instagram and and let them see it feels to be bombarded with negativity. I hope negativity will go right back to them

Probably not a good idea. Best just to do everything we can to avoid these people and keep them out of our lives.
M-Bob

Lanae · Jan 17, 2018

Mountainmanbob said:
Probably not a good idea. Best just to do everything we can to avoid these people and keep them out of our lives.
M-Bob

Ok

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