Hi, Quiet Bloke and everyone
God bless you
The issue about women and gifts can decoy our attention away from other things of scripture. Yes, I think a woman can minister. And 1 Timothy 3:1-10 to me means a man needs to be married and mature in how to be with God and care for people in our Father's family caring and sharing way. And his wife helps him to get so real with God and learn how to relate in love. So, they together are pastoring, then. He with his wife who so helped him are the example leading God's people.
But people decoy from this by bringing up issues about if women can preach and if seminary for young unmarried men and women is enough to prepare them for ministry. We need senior and mature examples, which I understand are described in 1 Timothy 3:1-10 and 1 Peter 5:3. But, of course, God is able to use any of us; but He uses mature example seniors to feed all of us
And I keep noticing how various people give so much attention elsewhere to various issues, but not to all which is basic to qualifying someone to "take care of the church of God" > 1 Timothy 3:1-10.
To me, it is clear that Peter means that every spiritual gift ministers God's own grace > 1 Peter 4:9-10. So, every real gift is so important. And grace includes how God effects our nature so we become more and more like Jesus and how He can not sin and how Jesus perfectly submits at every moment to our Father and relates as family with God and His people while also loving those who do not love. So, a gift is not only for performing outward miracles and ministry outward, but deeper it is the Holy Spirit ministering the effect of God's own love in our character.
And we have scripture for this > in Ephesians 4:15, our Apostle Paul says that we in Jesus "speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head---Christ---". As we grow in Jesus as our new inner Person > Galatians 4:19 > we grow in all the ability > "all things" > of His love. So, we do not linger with some one gift, if we are growing in Christ who has all capabilities!!!
However, a gift is already "good" and "perfect" (James 1:17); but this is the Holy Spirit in us . . . changing us with grace so we become more and more good and perfect like a gift of the Holy Spirit. So, each true gift is leavening the person who has the gift . . . while also leavening others, deeper than however that gift might make an appearance.
So, in case people are giving a lot of attention to the outward showing of a gift and making endless issues only or mainly about outward appearance of some gift or ministry by women . . . this could be decoying attention from all which gifts really are about . . . deeper . . . how gifts minister grace which changes us to become like Jesus. And as Jesus grows in us, all His ability more and more maturely grows in us all who are really growing in Jesus.
So we need, then, to have pastors who meet the maturity requirements of 1 Timothy 3:1-10. Yes, there is the pastoring gift, and ones are gifted to preach, but we need our seniors who have matured "in all things", to feed us their example of how Jesus has a mature person become in God's love. And ones less mature but gifted and seminary trained do help, but they need to keep feeding on ones who have grown in Jesus who in us is the real meaning of all of God's word . . . since Jesus is "the Word of God".