Obedience is not for Obedience sake but for glorifying the Lord sake. Obedience for obedience sake is actually worshiping the works of your own hands
"If we turn away from evil out of fear of punishment, we are in the position of slaves. If we pursue the enticement of wages, . . . we resemble mercenaries. Finally if we obey for the sake of the good itself and out of love for him who commands . . . we are in the position of children."
My motivation to live a sanctified life comes out of the Fear of the Lord, not because of the Love of the Lord. Furthermore, the Scripture talks more about the Fear of the Lord than the Love for the Lord.
Then there is Scriptural passage that warns us 'How long will you turn my glory into shame'. I do not want to sin because I want to have more of God's glory and not embarrass Him. That is my motivation. I have been exposed to 'Let's not sin because we love the Lord' message before. It did not work for me. I highly doubt it will work for anybody else. Because 'lovey feeling' is up and down. What happens during moment when one is not feeling loving towards the Lord?
I have been chastised by the Lord for certain actions that I have done before. I see breakthrough happening when I stop those sins. I have became an obedient person by the grace of God after those chastisement. We can see just from the fruits. Churches that do not preach on the Fear of the Lord and think 'love motivation' will produce obedience is very mistaken. Such churches tend to have believers that are comfortable with sin. Furthermore, in Hebrews 5:7-8 [7 Who in the days of his flesh, when he had offered up prayers and supplications with strong crying and tears unto him that was able to save him from death, and was heard in that he feared; 8 though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;] it is said EVEN THE ETERNAL GOD THE SON IN THE FLESH- CHRIST learnt obedience through the things that He suffered. CHRIST's prayer is heard because He has reverence (fear of the Lord) towards God the Father.
I do not believe a proper love for the Lord can come out if one does not have the Fear of the Lord.
Fear of the Lord is elementary school, Love for the Lord is secondary school. Both is necessary. However, to try to jump straight to emphasize Love for the Lord without understanding what Fear of the Lord is, there is no foundation.
If you read the book of Joshua and the book of Judges, THERE IS UNMISTAKABLE message that if one does not fear the Lord, the consequences is deadly.
In the book of Genesis, there is no mention of requirement of the love for the LORD at all. The first time the requirement of the Love of the Lord comes out is in Exodus 20:6.
When Abraham passed the ultimate test, he was commended by for fearing Him. God commend Abraham as a man of faith because he fears Him. Nowhere in the Scripture that Abraham is commended for loving the Lord.
There is nothing wrong with a mindset of having Fear of the Lord and coming to Him and expecting a benefit in return. It is actually commanded in the Scripture.
Hebrews 10:35
[Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.]
Hebrews 11:1-6
[Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. 2 For by it the elders obtained a good report. 3 Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear. 4 By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts: and by it he being dead yet speaketh. 5 By faith Enoch was translated that he should not see death; and was not found, because God had translated him: for before his translation he had this testimony, that he pleased God. 6 But without faith
it is impossible to please
him:for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and
that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.]
Hebrews 11:1-6 is the only time in the Scripture that actually gives the Scriptural definition of faith. Biblical faith also involves positive confidence that God will reward you if you diligently seek Him.