Can someone tell me what it means

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Hello! Sorry if the title of this thread is rude.

Can someone help me? What does it mean when someone is gossiping and talking about you and they refuse to tell you what they are saying because he or she says he or she is not your mama?

I just don't get it. why not tell the person any way, it doesn't hurt to help someone. why does it matter she or he is not your mom.

Thank you for any replies, thank you! :)
 

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Hello! Sorry if the title of this thread is rude.

Can someone help me? What does it mean when someone is gossiping and talking about you and they refuse to tell you what they are saying because he or she says he or she is not your mama?

I just don't get it. why not tell the person any way, it doesn't hurt to help someone. why does it matter she or he is not your mom.

Thank you for any replies, thank you! :)
Just ignore them. Godly people don't gossip. If they have issues with you they'll let you know directly. Reading Psalms penned by King David on such matters should also help. Peace in Christ :).
 
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What does it mean when someone is gossiping and talking about you and they refuse to tell you what they are saying because he or she says he or she is not your mama?

"I'm not your mom," means, "I'm not responsible for your behavior or well-being." It's like in Genesis 4:9, where Cain tells the Lord, "Am I my brother's keeper?" He could have easily said, "Why are you asking me? I'm not his mom." In both cases, the comment is dismissive of the fact that the real sin was committed by the person saying it. The person disavows responsibility for the harm committed against another person.
 
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Hello! Sorry if the title of this thread is rude.

Can someone help me? What does it mean when someone is gossiping and talking about you and they refuse to tell you what they are saying because he or she says he or she is not your mama?

I just don't get it. why not tell the person any way, it doesn't hurt to help someone. why does it matter she or he is not your mom.

Thank you for any replies, thank you! :)
Whatever they might mean, Philippians 4.8 is a good reference point! :)
 
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