Those who suffer death, divorce or lost relationships must go through a grieving process.
We need help to cope with these things and to understand the grieving process is making it a bit easer for us.
God created us for relationships; He made us to need, to give and receive, to create. We suffer many kinds of losses spouse, friend, child and loss of those with and for whom we have hopes and dreams. In the working aria we suffer the lost of a job that leave us with the feeling of loss of worthiness and security.
When you are faced with the death of a spouse you will feel the ripping of ones flesh We feel calm, celebrating weepy angry
When faced with divorce you can add rejection, failure, bitterness blame and condemnation.
The typical grieving process average from 18 months to two years, and must be worked through and it is not the same as to fill the empty place of the lost one.
The stages of grief
1. Shock Natures insulation
You will experience feelings of disorientation and confusion, knotted stomach and the lost of appetite. You will have very strong feelings of disbelief, nervous laughter and memory blocks.
2. Denial In this stage a sufferer might.
Leave rooms and possessions untouched. Will avoids necessary tasks to put things in order. They may also refuse to go back to the graveside. People in this stage may also avoid talking to others about what happened.
3. Fantasy normal responses might be
To get up and expect loved one to be there. In some cases they will start talking to the one who is gone as if still there.
4. Grief Release - a healthy letting go of emotions
Let the tears flow freely does not matter if you are male. Men do cry
Never say dont cry or dont worry to a grieving person.
We need help to cope with these things and to understand the grieving process is making it a bit easer for us.
God created us for relationships; He made us to need, to give and receive, to create. We suffer many kinds of losses spouse, friend, child and loss of those with and for whom we have hopes and dreams. In the working aria we suffer the lost of a job that leave us with the feeling of loss of worthiness and security.
When you are faced with the death of a spouse you will feel the ripping of ones flesh We feel calm, celebrating weepy angry
When faced with divorce you can add rejection, failure, bitterness blame and condemnation.
The typical grieving process average from 18 months to two years, and must be worked through and it is not the same as to fill the empty place of the lost one.
The stages of grief
1. Shock Natures insulation
You will experience feelings of disorientation and confusion, knotted stomach and the lost of appetite. You will have very strong feelings of disbelief, nervous laughter and memory blocks.
2. Denial In this stage a sufferer might.
Leave rooms and possessions untouched. Will avoids necessary tasks to put things in order. They may also refuse to go back to the graveside. People in this stage may also avoid talking to others about what happened.
3. Fantasy normal responses might be
To get up and expect loved one to be there. In some cases they will start talking to the one who is gone as if still there.
4. Grief Release - a healthy letting go of emotions
Let the tears flow freely does not matter if you are male. Men do cry
Never say dont cry or dont worry to a grieving person.
for sharing that wonderful advice!! My life has been some what of a struggle lately and it was nice to see someone with advice and who understands~
it made me feel awful
