Yoona86
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- Jan 18, 2013
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I have a 24 year old son. If he stared dating a 40 + woman, I would be concerned.
Is it selfish? I don't think so. It's logic kicking in.
A boy, and that's what they are at mid 20's, needs to be around people their own age. Experience all the things that young adults, if you call them that, experience.
It may be all nice and cozy at first, but this kind of "passion" and euphoria of early attraction, diminishes quickly.
Christian or not, there are many 40+ men out there in the same situation as the 40 + women who are out of a relationship for one reason or another. There are all kinds of activities, sports, functions, volunteering opportunities, church functions, that you can frequent and meet someone with your interests, experience, goals and common maturity.
Let the boy alone and find someone that needs someone like yourself and one that will complement what you need in your life at this time.
what is the purpose of this reply
is your focus on helping the OP make the best possible decisions or lecturing her because you have a son?
you need to remember that this young man is "not" your son and the OP is not your subordinate hence they under no obligations to listen to your command of leaving the "boy" alone or whatever it is
anyway the "boy" here is in his twenties he is old enough to make his decisions
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