Therefore God has graciously made salvation to be found within the foreknown group and left it up to man to choose to be in the group or not.
Once again quoting your doctrine and not Scripture. And there is no Scripture that explicitly supports that doctrine. There is in fact Scripture which
explicitly says that God has chosen and predestined
us. No real wiggle room there. We believe what it says of you don't, no matter how clever the sophistry we use to try and evade it.
Predestine does not mean foreknow, even if we chant it like a mantra.
Predestine means "to destine, decree, determine, appoint, or settle beforehand". No way to make it mean "know what's going to happen beforehand". To try to conflate the two is, at best, intellectually dishonest.
Zat mean that God has decreed everything that happens, good or bad, from the beginning? Nope, nor does Scripture say any such thing. No "kismet", and human will in full effect, as we prove every time we sin.
Will, but not
free will. Don't believe it? Just try not sinning for a while and see how free your will is. Ask anyone who's ever tried to give up a pernicious habit. Free will? Ha!
Romans 7
14 For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
15 For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.
16 If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
17 Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
St. Paul
willed not to sin, but he still sinned. His will was not free to prevent him from sinning. So it is with us all. We are saved by the grace and mercy of God.
Ephesians 2:
8 For
by grace are ye saved through faith;
and that not of yourselves:
it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
"Free will" not only doesn't save us, it's the misuse of free will that separates us from God in the first place. God does the saving, not us. Not our free will, not our niceness, not our zeal, not anything we do at all. Nothing. We are the poor victims being swept away by Niagara, being turned in all directions, slammed against rocks, gasping for air and breathing water, and finally flung over the precipice to be beaten into nonexistence on the rocks below. No act of will, free or otherwise, can alter our course or make our doom any less certain. If we aren't rescued by someone other than ourselves we must inevitably be destroyed.
For by grace we are saved, not of ourselves: it is the gift of God.
We like to think that we are saved by our free will because we like to believe that somehow we deserve to be saved. "I saw the light", "I have decided...", "I found it", "I accepted Christ", we want ourselves to be the center of things, and above all to think well of ourselves.
Now maybe I'm dirty, and maybe I smoke a little dope.
It ain't like I'm going on TV and tearing pictures of the pope.
I know I get wild and I know I get drunk.
But it ain't like I gotta bunch of bodies in my trunk.
My old man used to call me a no-good punk
And I still don't know why.
I know I ain't perfect, but
I think I'm an alright guy.
I think I'm alright. -- Todd Snider, "Alright Guy"
That's all of us in a nutshell. And on top of that, we want to believe that we contributed to our own salvation.