One woman I dated, she is in her early 30s now, but had a bad marriage that lasted only a year to a man she met while both were students in college. When she graduated, they were engaged...but she had her doubts about marrying him, because he was rather verbally abusive. She wasn't happy, so she went to her pastor about having doubts and wanting to back out of the marriage altogether.
She said that he guilted her into sticking to the engagement, somehow tying the engagement as something that she very much SHOULD honor in the eyes of God, and backing out of it would anger him.
Never such I heard such a bunch of malarkey in my life. Of course, she was 19 at the time..so she went ahead with the marriage.
Very bad idea. It only lasted a year.
What sadden me was, a church leader guilted her into sticking to the marriage. I mean, what kind of a person does this? I figured it was just one of those crazy fundamentlist types? It was a small church I believe, so I can see some kind of isolationism here.
She said that he guilted her into sticking to the engagement, somehow tying the engagement as something that she very much SHOULD honor in the eyes of God, and backing out of it would anger him.
Never such I heard such a bunch of malarkey in my life. Of course, she was 19 at the time..so she went ahead with the marriage.
Very bad idea. It only lasted a year.
What sadden me was, a church leader guilted her into sticking to the marriage. I mean, what kind of a person does this? I figured it was just one of those crazy fundamentlist types? It was a small church I believe, so I can see some kind of isolationism here.