Our children should come first. At the same time, aren't we putting them first when we model that others should come first before ourselves? Humility is a great attribute; we should always model it, encourage it, and practice it - not only to our loved ones but our neighbors as well.
Here are a few scriptures that speak to humility (from the New International Version translation):
PROVERBS 11:2 - When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with HUMILITY comes wisdom.
PROVERBS 15:33 - The fear of the LORD teaches a man wisdom, and HUMILITY comes before honor.
PHILIPPIANS 2:3-4 - Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in HUMILITY consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
1 PETER 5:5-6 - Young men, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with HUMILITY toward one another, because, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the HUMBLE." HUMBLE yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.
TN Jeni, I am proud that you would put your children before yourself. What an example you are to them! Do you see them learning from your example by putting others before themselves?
God's BEST be forever yours,
PrayerWarriorUSA