Also, to reply to other discussion, I am pretty sure I would ever like to meet this in real life. In Australia both snakes and spiders are deadly so the combination of both would be enough to send me into complete mental breakdown.
I have been a widow for 11 years. Unlike Naomi, I do want to marry again...not to old at 61 to have that Boaz in my life. I think 11 years is long enough to wait.