But you are singing the same tune as Calvin is. You are talking about how salvation is entirely out of our hands (i.e. Calvinism's Unconditional Election).
Why? Do you not know about the standard Calvinism belief (Tulip)?
Then what you do here does not matter. If everything is predetermined by God, then you have to accept that God is the author of evil and sin. You have to conclude that God desires certain men to be damned so that they can sin. But it is never God's will that any man should sin. The Bible says that God does not even tempt man to sin but that man is drawn away by his own lusts and desires (James 1:13-14). So certainly God would never force man into a depraved state of sin. For there is no darkness in God (1 John 1:5). God is love (1 John 4:8), and God is good (Matthew 19:17).
Not true. The very definition of what "true love" is all about free will. For married couples each choose of their own free will to love each other. But if a man forced his love upon a woman whereby she did not want that love, then that would be something dark and twisted and not "true love."
Yes, there is no denying that God draws us by His love and what He has done for us with His death, resurrection, and ascension (after He told mary not to touch him), and that salvation is initially and ultimately a free gift, and that He changes our hearts and spirits to be brand new and different, and that we receive the Lord live within us (and His amazing love and peace), but our Lord also said that if you love me, you will keep my commandments. Keeping the commandments is not something that you just automatically do. In fact, believing on Jesus Christ is a commandment (1 John 3:23). In fact, the Lord commands all men everywhere to repent according to the Scriptures (Acts of the Apostles 17:30). A command is an instruction from God to man. There are close to a thousand commands in the New Testament alone. So to say that God force saves us to do His will when God has many commands for us to obey is just silly. For we know many today are not perfectly obeying God's commands or even close to doing that. Yet, it is God's will for you to be holy (1 Thessalonians 4:3). Yet, we know that without holiness, no man shall see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14). Yet, we know that we can deny God by a lack of works (Titus 1:16). Yet, we know that the Lord is the author of eternal salvation to all who OBEY him (Hebrews 5:9). Yet, we know Jesus said, if you will enter into life, keep the commandments (Matthew 19:17). For to fear God and to keep His commandments is the whole duty of man (Ecclesiastes 12:13). In fact, God warns us against the deceitfulness of sin so that it may not harden our hearts (Hebrews 3:13). Instructions and truths like these in our Bibles would not make any sense if God just forced saved some and forced damned others. For we are told to work out our salvation with fear and trembling (Philippians 2:12). But believe whatever you like. Just know that what you believe is not even remotely taught in the Bible.