for me anyway. It's been three weeks since the wife and I have "been" together. Most of our marriage has been twice a month on average. This is no where near enough for me. I've made this clear to her but I never ask for it. Any time I have through the years I've been treated like a pervert or a sex fiend. I told her years ago that the constant rejection was too much for me and that I would no longer ask for it. When she wants it, she comes to me. But now it seems we're slowing down even further. I'm considering herbs or something than can reduce my libido. Any mention of this to her in the past has drawn criticism or boarderline ridicule. Since I'm wrong to want my wife, how can I also be wrong to reduce my interest in a woman who's not interested in me. When things are good, they're really really good. It's just too infrequent for me. What shall I do? I'm open to any thoughts from anyone. I can handle constructive criticism.