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I don't think anyone should be politically correct in their speech and writing, if "politically correct" means "using euphemisms to make something that is wrong or unpleasant sound good or neutral." Example: "Department of Defense" is a euphemism for "Department of War." "Correctional facility" is a euphemism for "prison." "Execution" is a centuries-old euphemism (although it may have grown out of a legal usage that wasn't euphemistic, exactly, in its origin) for a certain kind of murder. "Abortion" is a politically correct euphemism as well. We know what we're talking about when we say these things.
I do think it's a good idea to avoid using crude insults when possible. For example, older folks remember when there were in polite speech certain terms for US citizens of fairly recent African descent that are now heard as fairly crude insults. It's nice to use terms that don't make you sound like a jerk, if you don't want to sound like one. Again, we know who we mean (more or less) when we use these words.
Then there's a whole class where it's not certain what the term actually means. Sometimes, alt-right means a reasonable group of people with a presence online who would prefer not to see their world gutted as it has been, slowly, over the last several decades. Sometimes, alt-right means someone who is just ITCHING for a legal way to join a death squad and start busting heads. So, is using that term politically correct? Or not? Not so clear.
Well said, Hengesthorsa. One of the things I have not yet mentioned is the attitude used in the words, the spirit behind the delivery of the words. Years ago when I was about 20 I met a black man on the street in Seattle. I thought I was being hip when I asked him, "What's a spade like you doing here?" He looked at me with initial offense, then thought about who I was and what I asked him. He asked me, "Do you know that the word "spade" is an insult?" I was shocked since I did not know that. I apologized and said I thought that was something they said about themselves. He warned me not to say it again to a black man, for they will be offended.
He didn't beat the tar out me because he realized that my attitude and the spirit behind what I said was not intentionally offensive. Online conversations lack the visual of seeing posture and facial expressions, but a "tone of voice" can be sense by the wording. Here, at CF, regrettably, that is disregarded since they seem to have a black list of forbidden words and subjects.
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