Gnarwhal
☩ Broman Catholic ☩
- Oct 31, 2008
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Whenever I'm catching up with someone they're like pittying me and feeling sorry for me being single.
Here's the question though: do you feel your decision merits the pity of others? If you don't, then them pitying you is exclusively their problem, because they're too small-minded to appreciate and respect the calling on your life and the decision you made to follow it.
I'm 30, and I was single (and if we're defining single as "unmarried", I still am) for several years and I couldn't have cared less what anyone thought about that, even though I saw the 'looks' occasionally. Recognize that celibacy is just as much a compelling way to live as any other way of life that is aligned with God's Natural Law, and if another person doesn't see it that way then it's their loss.
We're all going to bump up against people who don't understand, don't appreciate, or are flat out hostile and intolerant of the choices we make because it's like a sign of contradiction. It's entirely juxtaposed to the warped ideas that secular society has for how people should live their lives: noncommittal, undisciplined, lustfully but not lovingly. Basically too much vice and not enough virtue.
So be bold in your choice, if someone else responds in an odd way when they learn you're celibate feel free to enlighten them but if they're unreceptive, they can deal with it.
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