Living your life for Christ beyond reproach isn't to score brownie points - its actually quite the opposite.
Then the sacrifice does indeed have a purpose... what was it again?
Think you need to read the OP again - no one was turning away a friend. She just wanted to crash at her male friends house because it was convenient.
And she needed advice as to whether or not this was a problem -- what do you think those who are saying that it is expect her male friend to do?
Except you missed the mark there is no Good Samaritan component to the OP. Sounds like you wish there was but your answering a strawman question nobody asked.
You know what they say about a friend in need....
I'm looking at this from the male friend's POV -- he's helping her, she's accepting it. If she thinks accepting his assistance is a problem because people will talk, well, that's her choice. But the people around here who are talking about these two as if there shouldn't be any contact at all is stunning.
Granted, I probably should've reversed the Good Samaritan parable to look at it from the injured man's POV --- if he lets a hated Samaritan help him, whatever will people think?
Hmm this is very interesting; an Agnostic advising a Christian on how to be a Christian?
Couldn't hurt...
Still I think I'll have to pass on your Sunday school lesson, as well as dismiss your lack of knowledge of who I am in Christ as a product of sheer speculative fantasy. It's disingenuous, since you have no clue who I am or how I live my life, that you are privy to my motivations. One can only conclude therefore that the above statement has its genesis in sheer ignorance.
Your contempt does more to "cast a shadow of doubt of who you are in Christ" than any response thus far. Be proud of what you've accomplished.
While I do not entirely agree with you at least you're getting somewhat warmer.
It was bount to happen for one of us eventually.
The Sanhedrin painted him as a revolutionary and troublemaker because they wanted the Romans to bring charges against Him. Unfortunately Pilate found no fault in Him and wanted to release Him which infuriated the Jewish leaders.
Most likely it was specifically to infuriate the Jewish leaders -- Pilate never missed an opportunity to show the Jewish "leaders" that he, not they, were in charge.
Historically it can be shown that it was Pilate's own fears about stirring up the Jerusalem again as the real reason he acquiesced and had Him executed.
I would very much like to see that -- so long as you mean the
historical Pontius Pilate, not the milquetoast portrayed in the Bible.
The same Pilate who, shortly after arriving in Judea, raided the Temple's treasury to fix Jerusalem's aqueducts, and when the people protested in the streets, sent out the soldiers to slaughter them....
The same Pilate who, in AD 36, when a wannabe Messiah who claimed to be Moses reincarnated led his followers to the top of Mt. Gerizim to receive a sign, sent one, in the form of a thousand soldiers who scattered the crowd and executed the ringleaders on the spot....
The same Pilate who had so many hundreds, if not thousands, of Jews put to death without even bothering with trials, that the Jewish people finally made an official complaint to the Roman government to have him removed (that Mt. Gerizim fiasco turned out to be the proverbial last straw)...
You
really think a guy like that is going to be gun-shy about nailing one itinerant street preacher from the Galilean boondocks to a cross? I'm not seeing the fear...
Yes, I too admire Jesus for always doing what was right despite cultural pressures but as I said in an earlier post there is no canonical record of Jesus crashing at a single woman's house and staying alone with her.
There's no canonical record of Jesus smiling, laughing, doing his laundry or using an outhouse... but I think we can safely assume that he did all these thing at least once.
What there is a canonical record of Jesus doing is taking money from women and allowing them to bankroll his ministry (Luke 8:1-3) -- which, in such a deeply patriarchal society as the Jews had at the time, would've been far more scandalous than if he had crashed.
Besides, there are far lower people on the ancient Jewish social ladder than women --not too many, but lepers, to be sure -- and Jesus had no objection to crashing with Simon when he was in Bethany (Mark 14:3 and Matthew 26:6)
What message are we to take away from that? "Hang with the lepers all you want, but not women -- people will talk!"
Jesus didn't just randomly break traditions and cultural norms either but in many cases followed them except where they hindered God's work. And when He did so He provided in depth explanations why He didn't follow cultural norms.
Sometimes he did, and other times, such an explanation wasn't necessary. Remember, those "cultural norms" as you call them were, in fact,
religious rules... In Israel at the time, all but impossible to separate the two.
The Gospel writers went out of their way to show Jesus going out of his way to break those religious rules (sometimes literally; Jesus was in no hurry to resurrect Lazarus, do you know why?), and for a simple reason -- Jesus is the Lord, after all -- and the rules only apply to the
followers of a religion, not the deity.