Catherineanne
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Thank you for the OP question
Interestingly enough the Greek word for rude in I Cor. 13 is referring to sexual advances but includes more than that. IOW's rude here doesn't just mean picking your nose in front of someone but rather it means truly being offensive in your behavior not just leaving your manners at home.
Likewise another word that is often misunderstood in I Cor. 13 is that of kind. The word kind in I Cor. 13 is a useful kindness. IOW's it does something useful. Where a smile is wonderful and sometimes is a useful kindness it isn't always and this is something we need to understand when it comes to loving others. Sometimes the person we smile at and feel righteous in doing so needs someone to listen or a dollar or maybe a cup of coffee and a friend not just a smile. For it to be love it needs to be useful to the receiver not just a feel good for us.
Just some thoughts for what it's worth.
I am speaking English and speaking of 'rude' with a standard English meaning; bad mannered, boorish, insensitive, thoughtless etc.
The Greek equivalent word or meaning is not relevant because I am not speaking Greek nor quoting Greek scripture. I am simply giving my own opinion based on my experience of people 'speaking the truth in love' in my life. It has never been done with sensitivity or tact, and there has never been the least trace of love anywhere to be found. It is far too often just an excuse for bad manners.
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