Hi, Red Blue
I thought of how we might discuss if being single could contribute to a person being mentally ill. Professionals, to my knowledge, find that mentally ill people can be helped by not letting themselves get isolated and by sharing with family and friends. And, in my case, my wrong stuff tends to act up, the more I get by myself and mainly concerned about my own self.
And as I get more involved in good sharing with people, love can help me do better. So, I can see that getting into a healthy marriage could help a person be mentally healthy. In my case, I am not married, but I have been involved with a lady who helps me to love and feel for other people; and this has helped me against mentally ill stuff.
But, of course, while I am alone, instead of being isolated with myself, I can be still and quiet and not trust any negative and nasty stuff, but instead trust God to do with me all He pleases, in His peace.
And when paranoid stuff violates me and starts to dominate me, it helps to pray and care for the people I imagine to be a problem for me. And often after this, when I get with those people, God has things going so well to prove that my paranoia can not be trusted.
Also, I did a check list about if I had Asperger's. My mother thought I did. I was a match with a lot of the items . . . especially how they meant I was too into myself and not really caring for and feeling for others. And I know Jesus wants us to love any and all people (Matthew 5:46) and to feel for others (Hebrews 5:2); so I took this to God for correction (Hebrews 12:4-11) . . . how He in His love could change me. And now I have my lady friend