RayofSun
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- Feb 22, 2005
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If we're going based upon experiences, it would be money. Back when I was struggling more, I've had girls who claimed to like me, but wouldn't give me a chance because I wasn't making any money nor did I have my career going. And now that I do, most of the attraction I get seems to be towards that.
I don't know that's a bad thing, as women want security, so I'm not trying to make it a bad thing, but at the same time, I've never been made to felt like I was a special guy by any woman or that they were actually interested in me.
I understand why a lot of men think this. But when I've spoken with friends about this, it seems as though it's not the money but rather the drive and need for someone with similar goals.
For me personally, I don't have a dollar amount or anything insane. But I would like for my husband to have passion, drive and a will to contribute. So having a steady job or actively pursuing a career or education shows those qualities.
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