Sorry for the broad / controversial questions...important time in my life and I'm struggling to make sense of it all.
No need to apologise, we've all be there at sometime. Back in 2000 my life went down the drain: long term relationhip breakup, mother died, brother dies a month laer, friend went inane and tried to kill me, had an accident & was partially crippled for two years. Life was the complete pits.
I don't remember consciously praying, but one day, at random, I grabbed a book from a stack and sat in the sun with my coffee to have read. It turned out to be the bible. Couldn't be bothered moving so I started reading, and rereading. I'm still at it and always discovering new things that had previously escaped me.
My dad says: when your on a downer listen to Beethovan's 8th (its mega depressing) or Arlo Guthrie's "the FBI song" about the "last guy" (nobody in the world is worse off than him, but the FBI follows him because he found a dime), or read Job in the bible, or watch the news. It is a gaurantee, there is someone worse off than you! So switch from the pessimism. and be psitive...
That advice worked on me!!!
I was brought up in a Christian household but of late have hit some pretty big hurdles.
I know I'll be able to find answers trawling through the forums but thought this would be the most efficient to deal with my questions.
My key questions are:
As Christians our belief is that believers in Christ and the bible will go to heaven and non-believers will be cast into hell for eternal damnation. Eternal damnation = much worse than torture or pain...How can we reconcile that we have a kind and loving God when he is willing to cast the majority of humanity into ETERNAL DAMNATION? Someone could live a righteous and perfect life without having the opportunity to learn about Christ and suffer eternal damnation whereas someone who has sinned but repented will go to heaven?
The Orthodox view (RCC, ROC, EOC, OOC etc) is God our Father doesn't rejects us, we reject him. Thus those condemned as not judged as if by a court, and the sentence of condemnation is not set as if by a rule book.
Jesus said he doesn't judge, didn't come to judge etc. Our condemnation is self inflicted, we condemn ourselce. The Church teacers that the sentence is of our choosing. God endows the condemned with his love, and they suffer because they can't bear the love. Consider the contrast of Pentecost & the parody of the rich man in hades. The same single flame is upon each, yet those at Pentecost experience the blessing, the rich man suffering. And who does he turn to for relief, not God but his superstition...
As for infants, the insane, those who haven't received the Gospel or because of an impedient not of their choosing the Orthordox simply hold "scripture gives no guidance. Therefore, as God is omniscient (knows all things) we trust in the righteousness, mercy & Justice of God our Father".
How do you guys deal with the scores of bible verses (I won't list them...) that conflict with scientific, social and epistemological progression? E.g. Those condone murder, sexism, slavery etc. Yes, these were different cultural times, but are we then picking and choosing (e.g. slavery was a product of cultural times whilst homosexuality is not and is definitely a sin).
Don't confuse the particularly vile slave laws of the USA, with slave systems elsewhere which were fairly benevolent for their time (think endentured servants, think of your own circumstances if you are an employee). Only in the USA were slaves treated as chattel, like cattle.
I'm not sure what you mean by Christians who condone murder. I'm guessing you mean places like Texas that still practice institutionalised murder. Most countries have abolished the scenario.
Sexism? According to Genesis God created Adam & Eve and called them both "adam" (the Hebrew word for mankind). Scripture says that a husband & wife should be as if one flesh. The trouble is, as the myth of Lilith shows, someone always wants to be on top, dominating the other, rather than co-operating. A.Paul in his traditionalism doesn't help reconcile the contradiction in modern society. The issue is the radical feminists are generally man hater, whereas the suffragettes had/have genuine grips... Its a societal problem that we can't impact except by example = one's own household.
As for science & the other issues you raised: Don't confuse Christianity with USA fundementalism, they are two different things.
Lastly...
I've just come to a realisation that the Bible is an ancient text written by and for a small group of Middle Eastern tribesman. What other than our belief (which may be misled / uneducated) helps us place the Bible ahead of any other ancient text (e.g. Qaran)???
Muhammad used the Torah for guidance, and that is why the Quran holds the "people of the book" are under Islam's protection. Unfortunately, most supposed Musims haven't read the Quran (just as most supposed Christians haven't read the OT or NT).
If you read the OT honestly, it is a book that details continuous failure. There isn't a quality character anywhere to be found. This is what makes the book so unique in the world's literature, and why people give it priority...