This is a sincere question. Why is god called a "he"? Does he have male private parts? Does he have testosterone? What about females? Is he half male half female?
If you say we are not made physically in gods image, just our consciences is than why is he called a "he"?
Hello Motherofkittens,
I know Him as my father in heaven. He is a male person. Majority of adult males are somewhat incomplete men though, because their pride and macho-ism prevents them from expressing the fullness of grace in their character. Children (boys) don't really have this problem, because they aren't so self-concious (although they do mimic macho behaviours from their male role models - but they aren't really reserved about their tender side).
God the Father is the complete person, so it's not as though He is lacking that certain gracefulness that would make a female think He is incomplete. It's hard to straightaway know God's character if you haven't known Him before (John 14:8-9).
Here's an interesting thought: Dr. Henry W. Wright asks this question in his conferences: "I want you to raise your hand if this is you, and look around you to see that you're not alone in this. How many of you when you think back on your childhood, cannot recall hearing your father ever tell you that he loves you?". He finds that 95% of people raise their hand to that.
Why is it so hard for a man to open his heart and say "I love you"? It is because they are slaves to sin. Their pride, resentment, anxiety, fear or whatever it is, just prevents them from being completely free to express who they truly are. God does not have that incompleteness.
Anyhow, that's just the way He is: complete. But God is spirit, He doesn't have a gender identity as such. The way we think of male and female are somewhat distinct (because of the roles for each in culture, the way they dress/interact/behave/coexist). When God is described in scripture, it is a male identity rather than female that is chosen, because the stereotype of Adonai is best described as masculine: He is King of kings and Lord of lords. Culture has always been that these are male, because they swing a sword and reign with might. In the days when scripture was written, they didn't have gadgets and vehicles, all power was muscle power.