Is there ever a good enough reason to commit suicide?

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I'm being sued for almost 7000.
I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me.
Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant
I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally.
Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center.
Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere.

Honestly, how could any of this get better?

It's been getting worse every year for 5 years. Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore.
 

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Honestly I don't know what would happen if you did that but PLEASE pray to God and ask Jesus Christ to help you. God loves you and please just try to focus on all of the blessings you do have. God is good and He loves you. Jesus is Lord. Jesus please be with her right now and help her in her life. In Jesus's name amen
 
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I'm being sued for almost 7000.
I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me.
Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant
I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally.
Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center.
Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere.

Honestly, how could any of this get better?

It's been getting worse every year for 5 years. Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore.
Give God a chance and pray, please :).
 
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"I'm being sued for almost 7000"
It may seem bad but it really isn't, could have been 20, 30, 40000. Money comes and goes, it will come back to you sooner or later with time.

"I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me."
Pray for God to give him the love you deserve and for you to love him back.

"Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant"
That is only assuming for now.

"I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally."
You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Say it, believe it.

"Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center."
That is temporary, have patience, leave your life in God's hands and you will be blessed.

"Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere."
You will be sooner or later, have patience, surrender to God and His peace will come over you.

" Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore."
You are giving up too soon, it definitely isn't a good enough reason to kill yourself. Plus imagine all the pain you would cause due to your death for a lifetime for the ones you leave behind. Seek God will all your mind, spirit body and soul and He will renew your life.
 
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I'm being sued for almost 7000.
I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me.
Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant
I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally.
Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center.
Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere.

Honestly, how could any of this get better?

It's been getting worse every year for 5 years. Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore.

There is a simple way to tell whether any man loves you.

He is prepared to marry you and will wait untill then for sex.

I suggest you arrange for the pair of you to talk with your pastor.
 
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I'm sorry you're going through so much at once. I'm praying that God grants you strength. Please find out if you're pregnant asap. Then focus on what's important - yours and your potential baby's health. People have children in less than ideal situations, and things end up working out. I know it sounds impossible, but people do it every day.
 
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I'm being sued for almost 7000.
I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me.
Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant
I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally.
Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center.
Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere.

Honestly, how could any of this get better?

It's been getting worse every year for 5 years. Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore.

2Co 8:9 KJV
(9) For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich.

Joh 16:21 KJV
(21) A woman when she is in travail hath sorrow, because her hour is come: but as soon as she is delivered of the child, she remembereth no more the anguish, for joy that a man is born into the world.

Psa 107:20 KJV
(20) He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.

Mar 5:25-34 KJV
(25) And a certain woman, which had an issue of blood twelve years,
(26) And had suffered many things of many physicians, and had spent all that she had, and was nothing bettered, but rather grew worse,
(27) When she had heard of Jesus, came in the press behind, and touched his garment.
(28) For she said, If I may touch but his clothes, I shall be whole.
(29) And straightway the fountain of her blood was dried up; and she felt in her body that she was healed of that plague.
(30) And Jesus, immediately knowing in himself that virtue had gone out of him, turned him about in the press, and said, Who touched my clothes?
(31) And his disciples said unto him, Thou seest the multitude thronging thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me?
(32) And he looked round about to see her that had done this thing.
(33) But the woman fearing and trembling, knowing what was done in her, came and fell down before him, and told him all the truth.
(34) And he said unto her, Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole; go in peace, and be whole of thy plague.

don't let the devil steal your life; God wants to lead you out of all of this - seek Him through His word - He's got a promise to help you with any trouble you have or will have. there are people you haven't met yet (including your unborn child) that will need your help one day - make the bigger sacrifice and stay here and fight for what God has already given you:

2Pe 1:1-4 KJV
(1) Simon Peter, a servant and an apostle of Jesus Christ, to them that have obtained like precious faith with us through the righteousness of God and our Saviour Jesus Christ:
(2) Grace and peace be multiplied unto you through the knowledge of God, and of Jesus our Lord,
(3) According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
(4) Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.

you don't have any problems that knowledge of God's goodness won't overcome - spit in the devil's eye and resist this urge to give in to his desire to cheat those people in your future of the help you can give them - this will help:

Audio Teachings - Andrew Wommack Ministries

Moore Life Ministries - Branson, MO
 
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I'm being sued for almost 7000.
I might be pregnant with a baby of a guy that seems like he feels forced to love me.
Might possibly have a miscarriage if I am pregnant
I have an undiagnosed medical problem that seems incurable and affects my ability to live and work normally.
Have a degree that hasn't helped me get a job outside of a call center.
Invested a ton of time in business strategies and even money and I feel like I'm nowhere.

Honestly, how could any of this get better?

It's been getting worse every year for 5 years. Couldn't God just forgive me for killing myself because I can't anymore.
I hate giving people advice when they are in worse situations than I am, but I wonder if this is what the Bible means when it says that those that endure to the end will receive the crown of life. We continue to experience troubles in this life. I think God wants you to continue to endure. I'm sorry for the situation you are in and I hope that God will bless you through it all.
 
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I don't know if you have read book of Job before? I felt like I should mention him to you :)
I agree with all the other posts here, please endure and please pray :) You are so valuable to God, and he formed you in your mother's womb for a reason.

I think that in every uphill battle and every difficult situation there is provision and victory on the other end. God is completely good after all, so when He sees life coming against us from all corners He becons us to keep our eyes on Him and trust Him :)
I would just encourage you to thank Jesus for victory in all of these areas in your life. Pray as if your prayers have already been answered :).

I think God will use you to help others who have been in similar situations as the ones you find yourself in now, cause I believe you'll get through this! :) and I believe God will provide for you like he provided for Job in the end.
So just hang in there lovely! We want you around, and Jesus wants you around <3 He has to much for you to do <3

In Jesus name, victory and joy come over your life starting right now. Amen

Just keep your eyes on Jesus and seek the Kingdom of Heaven, and all other things will be added to you :)

Matthew 6:33
33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. (NKJV).
 
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I hate giving people advice when they are in worse situations than I am, but I wonder if this is what the Bible means when it says that those that endure to the end will receive the crown of life. We continue to experience troubles in this life. I think God wants you to continue to endure. I'm sorry for the situation you are in and I hope that God will bless you through it all.
But it also says this:
Psalm 37:4
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Taking delight in the Lord means that our hearts truly find peace and fulfillment in Him. If we truly find satisfaction and worth in Christ, Scripture says He will give us the longings of our hearts. Does that mean, if we go to church every Sunday, God will give us a new Rolls Royce? No. The idea behind this verse and others like it is that, when we truly rejoice or “delight” in the eternal things of God, our desires will begin to parallel His and we will never go unfulfilled. Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things [the necessities of life] will be given to you as well.”
(From gotquestions)
 
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I guess I have to ask, after all your posts in the past why did you still decide to have sex with your BF? This is sort of the problem of sex before marriage, accidental pregnancy and stress. Trust me, even though I married we freaked out when we found out my wife was pregnant. She did have a miscarriage though, pray you don't have one. You have a life inside you (assuming you know for sure your pregnant).

And honestly, and I don't mean this to sound rude, but killing yourself means you are also killing a baby. God would not be happy with you killing yourself let alone a innocent life that has no choice.

Your situation in general is hard like many peoples lives are hard. I wish I could tell you life will become perfect at some point but it won't. There are going to be trials and times that are beyond difficult. But you have to focus on God even more during these trials. Pray. Read your bible. Go to church. We cannot do it ourselves (or even with a spouse/bf).

Do you think you will lose the case about the $7,000? Because theres always a chance they may rule in your favor. Don't give up hope. Degree wise I can tell you for many people they haven't ended up working the job that they got the degree for. Part of it is there just isn't enough jobs for certain degrees or the job is a dying job (like no longer needed as much). But the fact you have a degree at least means people hiring will take you more seriously no matter the job.

Again stay strong. You've gotten this far with God. The journies not over yet. And assuming your pregnant, your life now will be focused on this life who needs you. I doubt you will find a single parent who will say "I was not scared at all!", because its a very scary thing. No one is really ever ready for it.

Lastly I will say from being suicide myself a decade ago... its never the answer. And depending on your belief, suicide does not lead to heaven. Which is why I never could finish it. I didn't want to throw away my chance at heaven because of a hard life. God says we have to finish this race. Trust me, there are times when people don't even know how its possible to finish. But its possible. Maybe it won't end well, maybe it will. Just keep on pushing through this.

Also as for this guy, he may feel forced to love you because sadly when someone ends up pregnant, the other person feels sort of stuck. Give him some time though, after the fear goes away he (I pray to God) become closer with you because he will realize this is up to both of you to take of the baby.

Knowing your past on here I know you struggle alot, but the fact your here all the time means you are still doing well. I mean that as in if you weren't doing well and wanted to give up, you wouldn't even post. So know people care about you because we can see you do care about yourself. We will be praying for you!
 
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