I serve a two point charge in Rural Missouri. I do better with specific questions than just trying to define what day to day looks like.
Ultimately, the job of a Pastor is to equip the saints. Day to day, I try to think about how, today, I'm going to equip the people of my church to do ministry. This happens in a broad sense through preaching, and a more acute sense through meeting with and coaching parishioners who are taking on various leadership roles. My days can vary greatly, but since it's the end of the week, I'll break down THIS week for you;
Sunday - Preached two services, and had a dinner in honor of our High School Graduates
Monday - Had morning coffee with a close friend and colleague, and discussed some of the interdenominational ministry that we have planned in the coming months between our two churches. In the evening, I went to two local nursing homes and visited with members there, praying, listening.
Tuesday - I made a visit to a woman in a hospital an hour away, that took much of the morning. In the afternoon, I outlined my sermon. I'm in a series right now, so I selected my text, asked broad questions about what it is I hope the people will be impacted by, and ended up with an outline of the sermon. I did some reading in preparation of the sermon.
Wednesday - In the morning, I worked with a youth leader to develop the plan for a new bi-weekly Youth Group we're starting as our youth continues to expand rapidly. I participated in a conference call for a statewide youth organization I am on the board of directors for, and then we had our baccalaureate service, so I was home late after tearing down for that.
Thursday - Spent the day writing my sermon from that outline, it took all day. I tend to put a lot of time into my sermons (15+ hours a week), as I consider the sermon a critical junction in worship. I began at 8AM and was interrupted a few times by folks stopping by, and at 7:30PM I left my office to attend our local High School Graduation.
Friday - Today is my day off. Self care is critical if you're going into ministry.
Saturday - Tomorrow morning I'm planning to finish up my sermon, and then in the evening we have a youth event that runs until 1AM. (Remember that self care thing above? Do as I say, not as I do...) Then, we start it all over again on Sunday!