It's not. It's between him, his wife, and his children, and any semblance of his character or any reverberations of his:
Being in the strip club (going there of his own volition in the middle of the night).
Any impact on his children, his character, or ANY witness for the living God
Deception of ANY kind.
His standing before a Holy God.
His shaming his witness for and/or shaming the living God.
His shaming and/or degrading of his wife and children by even "appearing" to go off in "stealth" in the middle of the night to "witness" to a woman, inside where she is engaging in her craft, as he becomes a "customer".
He disrespected this woman as well to mis-lead her in his "stealth", "deception" and "pretense".
Ever heard of David WilKerson, brother?
IF you want to be worldly, absolutely it is between he, his wife, his kids...... even his gardener for all I know.
However, the question is NOT about the world and worldly appearance. but it has EVERYTHING to do with the spirit.
Luke 14:26
“If any man come to Me and hate not his father and mother, and wife and children, and brethren and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple."
Matthew 10:37
37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
You can judge this man on his actions and you too will be judged by the same measure..(by appearance and assumptions)... or you can realize that Jesus is NOT about religion but about relationship to Him and reaching out so others too may know Him.
Yes, going to a strip club is bad, but NOT if led there by the spirit. We were known before we were even born..... do you believe that nudity upsets the Spirit? It is the heart of man or woman in lust that upsets the Spirit, NOT the nudity in itself. If one is led by the Spirit then one can TRULY walk into a strip club and REMAIN RIGHTEOUS..... but ONLY if the Spirit truly led them there.
IF God led him there (someone became a Christian due to his visit so I have to judge the FRUIT.... NOT the action on its surface.) then I say praise the Lord. NOT "YOU SINNING HEATHEN!"
Now, if a woman had not be brought to Jesus then "being led" by the Spirit would be suspect, but being there is spiritual fruit from this act..... I will not assume that he is a man that simply wanted to see nudity.
This life is NOT about us, who we marry, how many kids we have..... no matter how much we may love them. IT IS ABOUT CHRIST, not us nor our family.
Mark 10:29-30
9 And Jesus answered and said, Verily I say unto you, There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel's,
30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life.