A lot of people are under the mistaken impression that "yoke" means "marry" in the Bible. This is not true. Here is the verse most people use for evidence:
2Co 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
1. Notice that the word marriage is not in the text (nor is marriage in the surrounding context), only yoke.
2. The word yoke is used in the Bible 60 times, it is never associated with marriage or fellowship. It is always associated with servitude, almost always when someone is forced to serve another. In my second post on this thread are all the passages that use the word yoke. See them for yourself.
3. The third reason that yoke does not mean marry is that Paul treats marriage and yoke as opposites.
This is Paul's teaching about marriage to unbelievers:
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1 Corinthians 7:12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
This is Paul's teaching about yokes with unbelievers:
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2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people." 17 "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you." 18 "I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty." 7:1 Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
Paul says those in marriage:
--should stay in the relationship with the unbeliever
--make the unbeliever clean
Paul says those in a yoke:
--should separate from the unbeliever
--are made unclean by the unbeliever
So Paul clearly shows that yokes and marriage are opposites. They have opposite effects. They need opposite responses from the believer.
This is irrefutable Biblical evidence that yoked does not mean marriage.
2Co 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
1. Notice that the word marriage is not in the text (nor is marriage in the surrounding context), only yoke.
2. The word yoke is used in the Bible 60 times, it is never associated with marriage or fellowship. It is always associated with servitude, almost always when someone is forced to serve another. In my second post on this thread are all the passages that use the word yoke. See them for yourself.
3. The third reason that yoke does not mean marry is that Paul treats marriage and yoke as opposites.
This is Paul's teaching about marriage to unbelievers:
Quote:
1 Corinthians 7:12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
This is Paul's teaching about yokes with unbelievers:
Quote:
2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people." 17 "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you." 18 "I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty." 7:1 Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
Paul says those in marriage:
--should stay in the relationship with the unbeliever
--make the unbeliever clean
Paul says those in a yoke:
--should separate from the unbeliever
--are made unclean by the unbeliever
So Paul clearly shows that yokes and marriage are opposites. They have opposite effects. They need opposite responses from the believer.
This is irrefutable Biblical evidence that yoked does not mean marriage.