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You are browsing profiles. You come across someone you think may have potential.
What do you message them?

"Hi. I see you like video games. I do too.

How are you today?"
 
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I wouldn't post anything. It could be some 40 year old man or a couple of teenage boys trying to kid me for all I know.

That's why I prefer to meet someone for the first time in person.

yeah the possibility that you might be talking to a catfish is a bit frightening.
 
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You are browsing profiles. You come across someone you think may have potential.
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Send them a picture of me pointing to a bed. The universal sign of love.
 
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You are browsing profiles. You come across someone you think may have potential.
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"Hi, wasn't positive you had potential so I'm writing to find out for sure...do you?" :D

Sorry, I'm just getting warmed up. :)
 
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I usually just say something simple like I mention a common interest that I have with them or I mention that we have a high match rating and ask them to reply if they are also interested.
 
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You are browsing profiles. You come across someone you think may have potential.
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Just start a dialog as you would with anyone else. Based on their interests and what they wrote should be plenty to start a dialog. Ask open ended questions that require dialog/converstion. Avoid yes or no questions for the most part. If you are strong in your faith ( and I hope you are ), Christ should be in the early parts of the dialog.
examples- what church do you attend?
what is your favorite book in scripture?
What are you studying?
then there are things like favorite foods, music, career interests, school is applicable, etc, etc
 
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*Wayholka looks at his date's profile picture on his phone. It's a picture of a young beautiful woman with blonde hair.*
Wayholka: She's beautiful. Welp. Here's goes nothing.
DING DONG
*The door opens revealing a woman who looks similar to the one in the profile picture but is in her forties, wearing a house coat and hair curlers, covered in cheap makeup and smoking a cigarette*
Woman: Hey there, sugar.
Wayholka: ... Meh. Close enough. *Walks into her house*

bleh, I can't stand cigarettes.

I joined OKCupid since everyone here seems to like it. I have 2 likes... but I can't see them unless I pay :(. it feels like gambling.

edit: only two people have viewed my profile... so chances are they are the two likes.
 
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I wouldn't post anything. It could be some 40 year old man or a couple of teenage boys trying to kid me for all I know.

That's why I prefer to meet someone for the first time in person.
Lololol that actually happened to my brother . but my friend ended up meeting a great guy and my other friend made his gf he met online his fiance a week ago, so not every online dating story is a horror story.
 
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Lololol that actually happened to my brother . but my friend ended up meeting a great guy and my other friend made his gf he met online his fiance a week ago, so not every online dating story is a horror story.

I don't like to post pictures of myself because I fear that I will become a meme...
 
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