The Golden Rule

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"All things whatsoever you would that men should do to you, do ye even unto them..."
Mathew 7:12
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This Golden Rule was already in existence in a negative form, before Jesus spoke it. For example in the book of Tobias in the Apocrypha, 'Do that to no man which you hate.' Rabbi Hillel said 'What is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour.' Jesus took it, turned it round, and made it positive: "Whatever you want your neighbour to do unto you, do unto your neighbour." Now the non-Christian way is to do to others as they do unto us. The Christian way is to do to others as we wished they would do to us - which is a very different thing.

It may seem a very low standard, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself." Is self love to be the standard of my love for my neighbour? What a low standard! you may say. But actually it is a very high standard, because we love ourselves a great deal. It is also a very flexible principle, for self advantage can guide us in all our behaviour to others. All we have to do is to use our imagination, put ourselves in the other man,s shoes, and ask ourselves, 'How should I like to be treated in his situation? When you do that, you have your answer as to how to treat him in that situation.

Treat him as you would like to be treated yourself. As Bishop Ryle says, 'It settles a hundred different points' It prevents the necessity of laying down endless little rules for conduct in specific cases. It is a universal principle of such wide application that Jesus could go on to say, 'this is the law and the prophets' That is, whenever anybody directs his conduct towards others according to how he would like others to direct their conduct to him, he has fulfilled all the teaching of the law, and all the teaching of the prophets.
 

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"All things whatsoever you would that men should do to you, do ye even unto them..."
Mathew 7:12
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This Golden Rule was already in existence in a negative form, before Jesus spoke it. For example in the book of Tobias in the Apocrypha, 'Do that to no man which you hate.' Rabbi Hillel said 'What is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour.' Jesus took it, turned it round, and made it positive: "Whatever you want your neighbour to do unto you, do unto your neighbour." Now the non-Christian way is to do to others as they do unto us. The Christian way is to do to others as we wished they would do to us - which is a very different thing.

It may seem a very low standard, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself." Is self love to be the standard of my love for my neighbour? What a low standard! you may say. But actually it is a very high standard, because we love ourselves a great deal. It is also a very flexible principle, for self advantage can guide us in all our behaviour to others. All we have to do is to use our imagination, put ourselves in the other man,s shoes, and ask ourselves, 'How should I like to be treated in his situation? When you do that, you have your answer as to how to treat him in that situation.

Treat him as you would like to be treated yourself. As Bishop Ryle says, 'It settles a hundred different points' It prevents the necessity of laying down endless little rules for conduct in specific cases. It is a universal principle of such wide application that Jesus could go on to say, 'this is the law and the prophets' That is, whenever anybody directs his conduct towards others according to how he would like others to direct their conduct to him, he has fulfilled all the teaching of the law, and all the teaching of the prophets.


Love God. This is law #2.
For this is the essence of the Law and the prophets.
 
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It may seem a very low standard, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself."
For example in the book of Tobias in the Apocrypha, 'Do that to no man which you hate.' Rabbi Hillel said 'What is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour.' Jesus took it, turned it round, and made it positive: "Whatever you want your neighbour to do unto you, do unto your neighbour."
The positive goes back farther than either of your citations. Our Lord was quoting Torah:

Leviticus 19:18 You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord.

In the Hebrew the phrase starts with the word v'ahavta: "And you shall love..."

It is the same word in the command Our Lord called the greatest command: "And you shall love (v'ahavta) the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.." Matt 22.37 quoting Deut 6.5

Hillel also tied those 2 verses together due to the same first word.
 
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It may seem a very low standard,
I maintain that Our Lord upped the ante on this command:

John 13:34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
 
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It all starts with God is love. So love is the standard from eternity. We can change the wording, make it positive or take the negative side, Paul said in Roman's love doesn't hurt your neighbor. If we are desiring to love each person we met then how its worded is semantics to me.
I try to do good to everyone. I know I can't do all good, I don't have the resources! I do what I can and don't beat myself up over the others.
 
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"All things whatsoever you would that men should do to you, do ye even unto them..."
Mathew 7:12
.

This Golden Rule was already in existence in a negative form, before Jesus spoke it. For example in the book of Tobias in the Apocrypha, 'Do that to no man which you hate.' Rabbi Hillel said 'What is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour.' Jesus took it, turned it round, and made it positive: "Whatever you want your neighbour to do unto you, do unto your neighbour." Now the non-Christian way is to do to others as they do unto us. The Christian way is to do to others as we wished they would do to us - which is a very different thing.

It may seem a very low standard, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself." Is self love to be the standard of my love for my neighbour? What a low standard! you may say. But actually it is a very high standard, because we love ourselves a great deal. It is also a very flexible principle, for self advantage can guide us in all our behaviour to others. All we have to do is to use our imagination, put ourselves in the other man,s shoes, and ask ourselves, 'How should I like to be treated in his situation? When you do that, you have your answer as to how to treat him in that situation.

Treat him as you would like to be treated yourself. As Bishop Ryle says, 'It settles a hundred different points' It prevents the necessity of laying down endless little rules for conduct in specific cases. It is a universal principle of such wide application that Jesus could go on to say, 'this is the law and the prophets' That is, whenever anybody directs his conduct towards others according to how he would like others to direct their conduct to him, he has fulfilled all the teaching of the law, and all the teaching of the prophets.


Jesus was not asked about what command should be obeyed to the exclusion of others, but about what he thought was the most important command. He said the two greatest commands were to love God and to love our neighbor and then said that the rest of the laws hang on those two, or in other words, the rest of the laws are the examples or the explanation for how to correctly obey the greatest two commands. So it is one thing to summarize to Law and the Prophets as being about love in order to convey their essence and quite another thing to say that we just have to worry about living according to one principle to the exclusion of having to worry about following all of God's countless other rules that are examples of how to live according to that principle. The Law is spiritual (Romans 7:14), so it has always been intended to teach us deeper spiritual principles of which the written laws are just examples, so if we correctly understand the principle of love, then it will lead us to obey more things than the written law requires, but it will at least lead us to do the things that God has instructed as examples of that principle. So if we try to love God and our neighbor while disregarding God's instructions for how He wants us to love Him and our neighbor, then we have not correctly understood that principle. Rather, if we love God, then we will obey His commands. Loving the Lord your God with all of your heart, soul, strength, and mind is a lot easier said than done, so thankfully God gave us all of these other commands to paint us a picture of what that looks like.
 
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