Here lately I have wondered why I do not hear ANY sermons preached on hell. I grew up Pentecostal and all those years I would hear preaching on hell fire, repent and give your life to Christ. Many times I saw the Holy Spirit convict people during these sermons and they would practically run to the altar. It seems here lately and has been happening for years now that preachers no longer preach on this matter. Why has everything turned into a pretty package, tickle your ears service?? Why have we strayed away from this? The preacher used to pour out his heart to the congregation, pleading the case of Jesus to turn from the wickedness of this world for there is a heaven and there is a hell, choose today who you will serve, repent for the time is drawing near. What happened to this teaching and preaching, it seems it has all but vanished?
This is indeed a serious and widespread problem. I suspect it is mostly prevalent in countries where life can be comfortable without God. Our culture has been built up with our comfort in mind—but not for no reason. The drifting away from God that happened early last century (and earlier) in America has generally increased the spiritual discomfort and pain in people. It is so normal now that it isn't labeled as pain or discomfort. We've accepted it as normal because it is accepted as normal in our culture.
Over the years our culture has responded to this by increasing our need for pain relief, which naturally people want ASAP. The only way to get relief from this kind of pain is becoming more connected to God, however, since that doesn't work quickly enough, people have turned to everything else anyone can think of to try—which primarily is to cover the pain with pleasure and satisfying activities. i.e., everything enjoyable even if it has nothing to do with God. God is not even an appropriate mainstream media subject any more because just hinting that a person is morally accountable to someone who cannot be escaped creates such discomfort.
There are lots of exceptions, but still there is a pattern of people that have become hypersensitive to pain. We're already have a persistent baseline pain. We naturally veer off anything that causes additional discomfort. Perhaps you have noted the pattern of rising fear in the country. There's an enormous number of things people are afraid of these days (open the newspaper) instead of trusting that God is in control.
Hence the advent of
too "seeker-friendly" churches. These are churches that want to comfort people, which is a good goal, actually, but they also are looking to short-term comfort rather than long-term. Generally speaking, long-term comfort comes at the expense of short-term comfort, because the rock solid source of long-term comfort is that God transforms you, often through the refiner's fire. It's why Jesus has become a good
investment. We want to know going with God will produce greater comfort.
There are Christians in the world today whose lives and culture make it seem like they are already in hell and the end must be upon us all. They are a lot more satisfied with the belief that the next life will be happy than we are without being demanding for comfort in the short-term from God.
The loss of God has resulted in a loss of "community," by which I mean a connectedness to the love one should be experiencing—even from one's own family. I'm sure you've all heard of or experienced the fact that 40 years ago, everyone knew their neighbors, but now it is common to know only one or two (or no) neighbors where you live. That's what's comfortable now. People cause people pain. (This is also why IMO there is a rise in having pets, pampering services, the entertainment industry, eating food for comfort, the transformation of gyms to health
clubs, and anything that makes you feel inclusiveness.) Even farther back—80 years ago, people relied on each other a lot more, too (we weren't so rich and it wasn't as long since we were a farming culture).
The result is seeker-friendly churches, not to mention companies that make an effort to be fun to work at. It's all a grasping at being a replacement for God and a family that loves and accepts you as you are.
So preaching about tithing, hell, suffering, and anything that costs you much is uncomfortable. And where there is discomfort, there will be people removing themselves from its source (hence the rise in divorce, frequency of job changes, etc.).
The solution (of course) is Jesus. Knowing you are accountable to a higher power that will judge you and knows everything you've done has a big psychological impact on society (in addition to the spiritual impact of more of the power of God and his love in one's life). Many churches have failed to accept that people will leave their church if they speak the truth, in part due to failing to recognize that it is God who draws people to Jesus, not comfy teaching. Comfy teaching draws people, but it isn't as strongly
to Jesus. (Hence spiritually dead churches.) The Word of God is not a Nerf light saber, it is a sharp, dividing sword. If it is being softened, it will not be as effective in doing what it does (which is not to say there is no place for a soft sword at times).
The only solution I'm aware of is to (re)dedicating one's heart to Jesus and preaching the truth in love and leaving the consequences to God. It seems the Lord is going to have to allow horrors and catastrophes to drive us to rely on each other and for us to hear the hope held out in the Gospel. Pray that the Lord will instead grant us a revelation of his love and an increase in the supernatural spiritual gifts which can be great sources of faith and comfort.