I appreciate that you specifically stated that you read the scriptures at face value, because when i reflect on the magnitude of the Bible and the intensive labor that went into recording the scrolls, and that the audience who was receiving them were mostly common, functionally illiterate people, living among many different tribes with varying religious beliefs and practices, it becomes apparent that we should do just that - take the scriptures at face value, search them for recurring, unchanging principles that recur because they ARE important, and don't over mystify them, because God and Christ were very clear that spiritism and mysticism were not part of the Abrahamic tradition. I've studied with both JW's and Christian Apologists and that kind of logical/reasoning approach works for me - I know it is not how everyone comes to know Christ, but it is kind of amazing and awe inspiring that there are so many ways that God's word can reach us. It is up to us to decide how deep we want to dig, but if it sincerely reaches our hearts, I have to believe that is it's intended purpose and that God, who knows that, will always appreciate a sincere effort to come to know Him and His Son.
That being said, i think there is clear evidence for soul sleep recorded in both the OT and NT, i'll share some scriptures and see what your thoughts are, I'm really interested because you said your family are JW's, so I'm looking forward to your insight on some of the scriptures that they use and how you've come to a differnet conclusion. I am still working a lot of it out, but probably the most compelling words for me come from Jesus himself and the people who were literally there with him - the apostles. John 11:11-16 is the account that most influenced me further researching death, the resurrection and the afterlife because Jesus CLEARLY tells them what happens when we die and yet, even they are not sure what he means, so he explains it again to make SURE they understand so they can then SHARE THAT INFORMATION WITH OTHERS i.e. - us. But - Something else to reflect on - if, when we died, we went to either heaven or hell, where was Lazarus during those 4 days he was "asleep" during the account in John...? Where was Jesus...? Stands to reason that wherever THEY were is where the rest of us will be until we are resurrected, doesn't it...?
Other scriptures that can be taken at face value to demonstrate the unchanging principle that is woven throughout the entire Bible - from Genesis to Revelation - which reinforce Jesus' assertion that when we die we are asleep until the resurrection include: Genesis 3:17 - speaks of nothing more than returning to the dust - no heavenly reward if Adam and Eve had been obedient, no hell for disobeying....the punishment for their disobedience was the REMOVAL of immortality, which is certainly punishment enough as evidenced through how much we agonize over it (the scripture that brought me more comfort on this topic simply because God acknowledged that he knows how much we struggle with the concept of death BECAUSE we were never intended to experience it - Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, he has put eternity into man’s heart, yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end." ESV) We can also look at how often the bible tells us that DEATH is the enemy, the wages paid for sin, not eternal damnation - Job 14:10-12; Psalm 103:13-15; Ecclesiastes 9:5; Daniel 12:2 - pretty clear; Jon 5:28-29 Romans 6:23. And, that no one is currently up in heaven with God and Jesus Christ - Acts 24:14-17; John 1:18; 1 John 4:12 - those last 2 scriptures assert that NO MAN has seen God at any time EXCEPT Christ, who is at His Father's side in Heaven. How can anyone who has been a mortal here on this earth be up in heaven now if we are still waiting for this day? Even Abraham was recorded as having to reason on this, and it was a big part of why he was willing to offer up his son as a sacrifice - because he TRUSTED in God's promise and unchanging principle of a resurrection to a perfect new earth; Hebrews 11:17-19; Isaiah 65:17 which is reiterated at Revelation 21:1, 4 . If Abraham had not had complete HOPE and trust in that FUTURE promise, would we even be here today to debate what that promise actually was...?
To specifically address the scriptures you cited at 2 Corinthians chapter 5, the context is established in the 4th chapter, where Paul reassures the congregation that their works and ministry ARE important here on earth - that if the people they preach to won't listen and accept the truth, it is because they are being blinded by Satan, who is the god/ruler/main influential force on earth keeping us from knowing our Heavenly Father and Christ 2 Corinthians 4:3-6. He tells them that the hope they have is for the resurrection in verses 13-18, which leads into the 5th chapter. But verses 13-20 give a lot of insight into the context of being in union with Christ and God now so we can be a light to others...and in chapter 6, he expands on that in verses 16-18 by telling them what they can expect if they do what he asks in verses 3- 13, that they open their hearts wide to be righteous ministers of God on earth. Ok - i'll stop but i truly do enjoy these discussions and am always wanting to deepen any understanding or correct any misunderstanding i may have, thanks!