I'm at the point I can't stand being around her.
I thought she was okay when I first met her. But since she was my ex-boyfriends best friend at the time, I was stuck in the situation of always having to be around her.
She was always demanding the attention of the group. And everyone would give it to her. Like, overly flattering her.
She had a seemingly great life. Lots of friends, a close loving family, enough money to never worry about college or life, and yet she's always complaining. I hate the constant fishing for compliments. She'll leave the room dramatically saying something short and making it a point to sound irritated, while everyone just shrugs with the old "that's just her." I didn't care at first either.
But back when this guy WAS my boyfriend, he was always being super affectionate with her. He would run away from me mid-conversation to run up to her and throw his arms around her back and say hi. My other friends noticed he treated her better, too. And for the life of me I couldn't understand why.
She's always irritated at something. She always compliments what a wonderful person she is and how everyone must know. She's self-involved. And yet everyone loves her.
I try to say hi to her when we pass by out and about in-between classes, and she either ignores me completely or says hi without so much as looking at me.
I'm still friends with my ex, but now I refuse to be apart of that group. My ex always hangs out with her now. They go to baseball games together, road trips together, everything we never did. I can't say it doesn't hurt, but still. Her Snap Chat story is always centered around her bragging about something.
I know jealously was a huge part of me disliking her, but I see a lot of qualities I wouldn't care for anyways. She's so fake and a crowd-follower. She likes to brag how innocent she is to everyone (she's a ministries major) and yet she listens to vulgar rap, cusses frequently, flips everyone off (for some reason everyone thinks its "cute"), and is in general kind of rude. I don't appreciate it.
When I asked my boyfriend at the time, he told me to basically get over it because he likes her and if I don't like her then I can leave. There you go.
Thoughts on dealing with someone you hate that everyone else likes? I know the bible says we should get along to the best of our ability, and my best has run out for her.
I thought she was okay when I first met her. But since she was my ex-boyfriends best friend at the time, I was stuck in the situation of always having to be around her.
She was always demanding the attention of the group. And everyone would give it to her. Like, overly flattering her.
She had a seemingly great life. Lots of friends, a close loving family, enough money to never worry about college or life, and yet she's always complaining. I hate the constant fishing for compliments. She'll leave the room dramatically saying something short and making it a point to sound irritated, while everyone just shrugs with the old "that's just her." I didn't care at first either.
But back when this guy WAS my boyfriend, he was always being super affectionate with her. He would run away from me mid-conversation to run up to her and throw his arms around her back and say hi. My other friends noticed he treated her better, too. And for the life of me I couldn't understand why.
She's always irritated at something. She always compliments what a wonderful person she is and how everyone must know. She's self-involved. And yet everyone loves her.
I try to say hi to her when we pass by out and about in-between classes, and she either ignores me completely or says hi without so much as looking at me.
I'm still friends with my ex, but now I refuse to be apart of that group. My ex always hangs out with her now. They go to baseball games together, road trips together, everything we never did. I can't say it doesn't hurt, but still. Her Snap Chat story is always centered around her bragging about something.
I know jealously was a huge part of me disliking her, but I see a lot of qualities I wouldn't care for anyways. She's so fake and a crowd-follower. She likes to brag how innocent she is to everyone (she's a ministries major) and yet she listens to vulgar rap, cusses frequently, flips everyone off (for some reason everyone thinks its "cute"), and is in general kind of rude. I don't appreciate it.
When I asked my boyfriend at the time, he told me to basically get over it because he likes her and if I don't like her then I can leave. There you go.
Thoughts on dealing with someone you hate that everyone else likes? I know the bible says we should get along to the best of our ability, and my best has run out for her.
