What do the numerous scriptures about believing and faith have to do with a time limit? Observe.
"Seeing is not believing, seeing is manifest."
Jesus to Thomas: "because you have seen, you have believed, blessed are those who have not seen, yet believe."
Are you calling Jesus a liar?
"Why is it so hard to believe that some people do in fact choose to be separate from God and even as far away from Him as they can possibly get? Have you never encountered people that claim to be servants of satan rather proudly and confess boldly to hating God?"
They may be as such now, but no one can resist the love of God forever. Free will or not, it is not in our nature or ability. In the same way that our free will does not allow us to flap our arms and fly, our free will not allow us to reject God forever.
Love never fails.
"Take a bite out of our present reality for a moment and taste the bitterness against the God of whom you serve and then tell me God will save them, even though they CHOOSE not to be anywhere near Him and in fact CHOOSE to abhor Him and all that belong to Him."
Romans 5:8
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
God loves the two children who shot up Columbine, even if we don't.
"You are dangerously imagining God as a torturer, having some sort of bent reasonning to torment wicked souls in pleasure when actually He has no pleasure in it and we are given ample opportunity to come home and know His Love."
You are dangerously imagining God as a torturer, having no reason at all to torment wicked souls, yet powerless not to.
Or are you?
If you don't tell me how I imagine God, I won't tell you how you imagine God.
I imagine God as a loving Father who will correct his wayward children until they do not need to be corrected anymore. God uses fire to symbolize this, but I don't believe it will actually be literal fire. Whatever it is, it will be done in love because God is love.
"God is not mocked, whatsoever a man sows, that shall he reap."
No one can sow (work) and reap everlasting life/pleasure. So who can sow and then reap everlasting torment? A person who sows spiritual things will reap spiritual rewards which are permanent. A person who sows non-spiritual things will reap temporal rewards which will ultimately be consumed (1 Corinthians 3:10-15).
"The love you suggest, is forced freedom. There is no such thing."
The freedom you suggest is rife with limitations and so is not truly freedom in the first place.
The love I suggest is the very nature of God. It does not fail. God desires that everyone be saved, and His love will by no means fail. Everyone will be saved, whether you want to believe it or not