so to start before my wife and I got married durning the engagement she was sending pics of her self to another man.( pics only a husband should see)
She told me about it asked for my forgiveness and I forgave her. So we got married and are headed to 4 years of marriage in June. This last weekend she made out with another man. He was druck and remembered it all and even told me she wanted it to happen. She also asked me to forgive her and move on like nothing happened. I told her even though it was making out only according to what she said, I'm still hurt and I'll need some time to process this. 2 days latter she's nagging me about how it's my fault it happened and that she needs me to forgive her. I kind of have but I'm riding the fence on it. She says I'm over reacting. Am I over reacting. I told her we need to do counseling together or this won't work any more she got mad and an hour later agreed to counseling. I'm still very hurt I'm trying my best. I need prayer and support. I'm asking for it here bc I don't want the image of my wife to be tainted if the family knows or friends know. But I'm losing my mind over this.
She told me about it asked for my forgiveness and I forgave her. So we got married and are headed to 4 years of marriage in June. This last weekend she made out with another man. He was druck and remembered it all and even told me she wanted it to happen. She also asked me to forgive her and move on like nothing happened. I told her even though it was making out only according to what she said, I'm still hurt and I'll need some time to process this. 2 days latter she's nagging me about how it's my fault it happened and that she needs me to forgive her. I kind of have but I'm riding the fence on it. She says I'm over reacting. Am I over reacting. I told her we need to do counseling together or this won't work any more she got mad and an hour later agreed to counseling. I'm still very hurt I'm trying my best. I need prayer and support. I'm asking for it here bc I don't want the image of my wife to be tainted if the family knows or friends know. But I'm losing my mind over this.